I was talking to my boyfriend and he got a boner. I happened to glance at it and he noticed me looking and got real embarrassed. I can understand why he'd be embarrassed but now he's scared to talk to me anymore. I don't think it's gross or weird. It's natural and I wish he could see that I don't care. He doesn't have to feel ashamed or anything around me. He makes me horny too. TMI? Sorry!
blujay answered Friday March 18 2005, 7:02 pm: ok well it is because he thinks your hot tell him he gets you hot too and please if every guy in the world acted the way he is there will never be any boy-girl contact. [ blujay's advice column | Ask blujay A Question ]
Deanimal answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 12:42 am: Well... talk to him. Tell him everything you just told us.
Hey... feel lucky that you don't have the type of boyfriend who announces when he's aroused and is proud of it. (Or maybe you'd like that... it annoys me)
Mz_Laudie answered Sunday March 13 2005, 3:51 pm: just tell your boyfriend, that your not weireded out at all by it, and you feel the same way sumtimes just he cant "see" when your feeling that way, let him know your own the same page. Hope i helped! [ Mz_Laudie's advice column | Ask Mz_Laudie A Question ]
Kels answered Sunday March 13 2005, 11:13 am: well, if he is your boyfriend, then you too should be able to talk. so why not just tell him. just tell him that you dont think that it is wierd or gross.
EJ47 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:16 am: Just confront him and tell him you think it's ok. That it isnt gross or freaky or anything. In fact, nasturally, as your BF, thats a good thing, that he feels aroused in your presence. Most girls, especially if its your BF, would.... take that as a compliment, I suppose, that the guy was getting a hard on just fromtalking to him!
And you being reandy too around him? All for the better! Just don't ruin the relationship by having it revolve around sex. Eventually one of you will want more but the other won't and that would be the end of it. It sounds like you have a real deal going on here ^_^ and of course its not TMI, we /all/ get like that sometimes and everyone knows it! :P [ EJ47's advice column | Ask EJ47 A Question ]
sunny411 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 8:48 am: Okay well tell him how you feel make shure its not online or maybe on the phone because you could be talking to someone else and you dont want that to happen at all do you? I mean you are boyfriend girlfriend so i don't understand why he would care about you looking at his (you know what)!!! He just probley dose not feel as if he did not like how you did it! so talk mabe things might work out after all you are still going out! [ sunny411's advice column | Ask sunny411 A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Sunday March 13 2005, 4:30 am: Why dont you tell him what you just told everyone else tell him that your not ashamed of it and you dont find it weird or gross and your turned on by it
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