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BAAAAD BOYS!


Question Posted Saturday March 12 2005, 11:36 pm

Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL!

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ALoathedCrime answered Wednesday March 30 2005, 2:58 am:
First of all.

THIS. IS. GROUP. RAPE. (aka 'gang bang'). You should go tell police as soon as you can and get them in trouble! They didn't respect you at all and they could have seriously hurt you or passed a disease to you or something like that. Or you could have even gotten pregnant. (._.) So you need to do something about it as soon as you can. Don't let them get away with it.


(Oh, and fyi. Don't define them as friends if they did that to you. I would not really be calling my rapest my 'friend'. ;D)

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kiss_me_hunny answered Saturday March 19 2005, 11:01 pm:
thats hot 27 is a fucking retard omg.

your fine. it's probably ur period changing, after all you had sex.

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blujay answered Friday March 18 2005, 6:58 pm:
now the bleeding will stop it's maybe your period changing cycles k dont worry

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ThAtS_h0t_27 answered Friday March 18 2005, 2:09 am:
Honey you need serious help along with a lawyer. It's considered RAPE here in the United States if you are forced to have any sexual contact that is unwanted.You need to tell someone and fast because it could seriously ruin your life if you don't get help.

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PinkPrincess42 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 7:57 pm:
Ok, you seriously need to go somewhere and get checked out, because you have been raped, no doubt about it. You really dont need to put yourself in this position again. Its just crazy to drink with a ton of guys that you dont know and get so drunk that something like that can happen to you. For right now, you should seek help. Some bleeding is normal, but not CONSTANT.
♥Emily

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Call_Me_Jane answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 4:59 pm:
Honey in the future- only drink with people you trust. For now... get checked out. its not your fault.

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superGiRL21 answered Tuesday March 15 2005, 10:46 am:
Hey sweetie-that's a really serious issue. You were raped. You need to go to the hospital or get yourself checked out, do you know if the boys used a condom? If they didn't you could be pregnant. Bleeding is normal after sex especially if its your first few times, but anything that lasts more than a couple of days is serious. Bad things happen to good girls so just chill for a second, get your head on straight and take care of yourself! Next, please don't ever put yourself in a situation where you are alone with three guys who are drinking, by putting yourself in that position you are leaving yourself vulnerable to getting raped. So think about preventing this type of thing in the future. Best of luck with this situation i hope everything works out. xoxoxo sar

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BooBoo2007 answered Monday March 14 2005, 12:28 am:
Sweetheart, that's called rape! You need to call the hospital, and head to the emergency room if you don't stop bleeding. Call the police later on the guys that did this, and if you haven't takin a shower between now and the time it happened, then that's for the best, because you would still have evidence on you that they touched you. Meaning fingerprints and stuff...No girl ever wants it to happen, and it's not your fault. Alot of girls always end up blaming themselves, and I never knew why, but for future reference, it is not your fault! The best of luck!! Much Love!

XoXo
Jessie

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angelinluv6767 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:41 pm:
You need to tell someone about this .. u ahve been raped. I have never been in this situation ebfore but i know that if you told them no and they did it anywways, you can sue. If you are still bleeding, you need to go to the E.R. or either to doctor. And dont go to those guys house no more, and if u decide to, i would take another girl friend with me! hope this hlped.

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sexy_as_fcuk answered Sunday March 13 2005, 3:31 pm:
You have been raped. Talk to someone u trust about this as you may need support in deciding what you want to do. Also i suggest not speaking to these lads in the mean time as they have taken advantage. I have alot of boy mates it is best if you are staying round to have at least one other girl with you even if you do feel you can trust them.

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TaxTheMooses answered Sunday March 13 2005, 2:51 pm:


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lilballaboy163 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 12:48 pm:
you have been raped

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sweetjewel answered Sunday March 13 2005, 12:25 pm:
thats called rape

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uacctk14 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 10:06 am:
if you said no! then u can sue on the count of rape if u want to...my suggestion is to hurry and go to the doctor ...if you don't want your parent to know go to a free clinic they can do a test there and check if you're ok...and another piece of advice is get tested for hiv and all those other dieases....i wanna wish you good luck and if you need anyone to talk to im here for you!

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sPicYx0hoTt answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:41 am:
you got raped. you need to calm down, and you should probably tell someone.

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Shortie8959 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 9:05 am:
You have to see a doctor. And you have to tell your mom or dad, and don't be afraid to tell the truth, because it's not your fault. You got raped, it's a crime, and they can get in trouble. Good luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Erin

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sunny411 answered Sunday March 13 2005, 8:39 am:
okay well see a doctor, tell your parents the TRUTH! if they trust you they mgiht belive you! You got raped and thats not good! So its not your fault so dont panic. If you do get a child and you dont want one put it up for adoption!

..hope i helped and good luck..
~sunny411~

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angieroonie answered Sunday March 13 2005, 5:30 am:
SEE A DOCTOR!!! NOW!!! You have to tell your parents. they wont get angry at you... they cant. it was rape. but you definately have to see a doctor and have some tests done. you could have gotten an STD or pregnant. you cant avoid it forever. get help ASAP

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mylinhthan answered Sunday March 13 2005, 2:41 am:
anonymous -

First off, you were raped if you resisted at all, especially if you didn't want to have sex. I'd go to the doctor to get it checked out. Even if you think it's embarrassing, it's better that you find out what it is and if it's a problem so that you can do something about it rather than ignore it and prolong any health problems. Or go to Planned Parenthood, everything there is confidential. Also, if you didn't know the guy or simply don't like him, call the police up and file a rape report.

Hope this helps!

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