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i have this really good guy friend who is a year older than me .in fact , i call him my "big brother" and he calls me "little sis" . LOL . anyway , the other day when i was just talking to him , i reached across him to get something from the person sitting on the other side of him . ( we were sitting in a row , with him in the center ) and i sort of brushed against his chest while bending back . After that , i noticed that he got a boner and there was a lump in his pants . well now i'm kinda freaked out cos i never thought that he would like me ( especially bcos of the little sis big bro thing ) . i'm confused and don't know if i like him .. what should i do ?
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Who said he liked you? (not to be rude..because Im sure you're a great person), but something else could have set it off. Guys always get boners. Guys could be in the middle of CLASS and get a boner. Or he could be thinking about something totally different. Don't read too much into it... it's just a boner lol..I hear guys even wake up with one ya know..girls dont always have to be around them for them to get one.
But I mean..as far as liking him goes. It's not bad to like him. If you DO end up liking him it's not something you can help anyways. But I understand what you're saying as far as the "brother/sister" thing goes. Your feelings will all fall into place soon enough.
good luck.
`jessie
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just because he got a boner doesnt mean he likes you..but anyways if you like him then stop calling him big bro and just be more flirtacious
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talk to him
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First of all just because you gave him a boner by brushing up against him doesn't mean hes into you. Sorry for crushing your heart but its all hormones and puberty.Every boy gets them its nothing new.
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If you don't have a boyfriend I say go for it, I mean 'a lump in his pants?' that is so totally hot!!!... this might be an assumption of yours though... dont make the first move... but flirt with him subtle(y)...
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lol just because he got a boner.. doesn't mean it was exactly from you. and plus, you're a girl and girls turn guys on so maybe you turned him on and he got a boner lol but it doesn't mean he likes you in that way.
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That doesn't have to mean he likes you. Maybe he does but it sounds like he doesnt. Most guys in their teen years can get a boner if the wind blows right.
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I don't think you should take this seriously, honestly, all guys have this, even just a brush of someone they don't even know or like. Don't freak out, yes it seems scary, but he is a normal, healthy boy. So, I say to just keep going with your friendship, don't decide whether you like him or not, just go with this.
-TheTeenGirl
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Believe it or not, this is perfectly natural for that type of friendship (meanin big bro/lil sis) When a guy and girl are best friends, and I mean really close, one always falls for the other. Its because they are so close, and they know each other so well, and if there was to ever be a relationship that friendship would be a great foundation for it. But it always happens, my best friend is a guy nearly 2 years older than me, and he was my first love. I never saw it as weird, granted we live in 2 different states, but I thought it made since because he were so close for bein that far apart, he knows me better than anybody, and I can really tell him anything and everything, and he actually fits my description of the perfect guy...well the perfect guy for me I guess. There's a chance you do like him, and just never really thought about it because you thought it was just big bro/lil sis, sit down and think about it, and I mean really think about it, then talk to him. Ask him what he thinks...if you decide to become more than friends, don't jump right into it, you don't want to take a chance on ruining this friendships, because believe me, these types of friendships are very rare...Hope this helps! Good Luck! Much Love Sweetie!
XoXo
Jessie
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if you like him, you need to talk to him yourself. he could be turned on by you, or it could have been just a random boner. its nothing bad, just means that he likes you.
irish
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Boys will be boys.It's human nature for guys to get turned on when a girl rubs against him,and its not like you guys really are brother and sister.You can't hold it against him,because it's something he can't control.
♥ashley♥
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Ask your self if you like him. No I don't mean do I like him I mean Do I really like him can I see my self as his partner? then you'll know.
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Haha, I wouldn't worry too much about it. It might not have even been a boner. Sometimes guys pants just get lumpy and bunched up when they sit down, you know? Don't let a little thing like that ruin the lil' sis/big bro friendship.
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well, dont worry if u like him or not, he likes u, so have fun!!
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lol. if he got a boner... it could of been from anything lol. And if you "noticed" it... then you were looking at him there, which makes me wonder if you like him. Point is you should talk to him. Ask him if there could ever be anything more between you guys. He may think that you want it to, so if you dont just tell him a friend told you he liked you.
I've been in this situation way to many times lol. it usually works ;)
hope it helps
N I K K I
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Well just because he got a boner when you did that doesnt mean he actually likes you, you should ask him about it. Tell him you noticed he got one and if yous should start dating. And maybe since you's are so close(big brother lil sis thing) maybe it'll be good to go out, because you's can share things with eachother and have a close relationship. Hope things work out!
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well its ok for him to like you, you cant change that since you too seem like really good friends. and if you like him or not it's up to you. if you like him you can ask him out or flirt and have him ask you out. if you dont like him like that just be his friend. he should understand if you dont dont like him. the whole 'little sis' 'big brother' thing... i think he does that mainly cuase he likes you and stuff. so i hope i helped.
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