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advice

ok here it goes its kinda long but i really need your help.
i have this friend she is like my best friend thats what she calls us... doesnt mean she is...
well her boyfriend broke up with her a while ago. she still hasnt gotten over him. she still loves him. i've talked to him on the phone and i asked him if he still likes her and he said no. and i was like well who do you like? and he kept saying no one until he said "me" i was like stop playing and he says im not playing i like you. and i kept saying no your joking and he goes no i like you, you dont belive me? and at school he always tells me he loves me, and he gives me hugs, and once he called me his girlfriend. i went to the movies last nite and he was there... he asked me to sit next to him, and i said ya ok. and at the movies he put his arm around me and he kept telling me he loves me and he gave me a kiss on the cheek. i like him to a lot. but i dunno what is he trying to do, does he like me? i think he does, but im not sure. he askes me if i love him and i say yes sometimes mostly i dont answer and wen i say yes he asks me why? and what should i do about it? he flirts with other girls to. so please help me, and tell me what does this mean?

ahh i'm going through the same exact thing right now. okay all you have to do is say.. listen i just can't do this to my friend and if he says well if she wasn't in this would you go out with me just say maybe.. i dunno what would happen. just say that cause you always wanna side with your friend. but if you really really want him, then just explain it all to your friend and say that you're starting to like him back and then seh'll either flip out or not. i mean i don't know your friend but it's just best to explain it to her either way.

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I had sex with a guy almost 3 weekends ago.. and the condom fell off... i didnt get the morning after pill but my friend said i could just take 3 birth control and it would be the same thing... but i'm afriad! what are some EARLY pregnency signs?! lately i have felt nausaous and i've had spotting... please help...

well some early signs are missed period, morning sickness, your appetite gets bigger, etc. if you're that worried then go to the nearest store that sells pregnancy tests and go to a friends house and check and everything -- just go with someone though.. it'll make you feel more secure.

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i have this really good guy friend who is a year older than me .in fact , i call him my "big brother" and he calls me "little sis" . LOL . anyway , the other day when i was just talking to him , i reached across him to get something from the person sitting on the other side of him . ( we were sitting in a row , with him in the center ) and i sort of brushed against his chest while bending back . After that , i noticed that he got a boner and there was a lump in his pants . well now i'm kinda freaked out cos i never thought that he would like me ( especially bcos of the little sis big bro thing ) . i'm confused and don't know if i like him .. what should i do ?

lol just because he got a boner.. doesn't mean it was exactly from you. and plus, you're a girl and girls turn guys on so maybe you turned him on and he got a boner lol but it doesn't mean he likes you in that way.

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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap

well it's a big decision hun and if you're unsure about it all like you said [like sometimes off and sometimes on] then don't do it until you fully know that you're ready.

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I really want to buy a vibrator... but I don't know where to go. I am 16 years old, and do not want one shipped to me, I want to go to a store. I was wondering, do I have to go to a sex store or are there any other stores that sell them?

~Kristin

well yeah spencers of course has them.. but i dunno i live in jersey and there's this store called urban groove in the mall that i go to so if you have that store nearby, they have alotta sex stuff but sometimes there's a guy standing in front of the aisle and you're not allowed in unless you're 18 or older but he's dumb so if you look older you'll be able to go right in.

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What is meterosexual, and is that a bad thing for a female who is trying to date one?

a metrosexual is someone who is very into themselves.. they whole shopping and cute clothes and stuff like that. and no it isn't a bad thing for a female who is trying to date one at all.

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I was just wondering, is it possible for a guy to be too shy to IM you? becuase i have imed ths one guy i like about like 4 times in total but like over a span of about 2 months but..i'm just thikning is the reason he hasn't imed me first because he is shy or that he just doesn't feel that way about me? help please..thanks

i hate that too -- cause when you IM them you feel like you're bothering them cause they like never IM you first. well, yes, it is possible for him to be to shy to IM you and just feel more comfortable with you IMing him first. if he talks back and all then everything is cool but if he kinda ignores you and never says anything then he could be shutting you down.

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