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shy?
I was just wondering, is it possible for a guy to be too shy to IM you? becuase i have imed ths one guy i like about like 4 times in total but like over a span of about 2 months but..i'm just thikning is the reason he hasn't imed me first because he is shy or that he just doesn't feel that way about me? help please..thanks
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Well, guys arent usually too talkative online
{ a lot of my guy friends dont talk much} or it could be that he's too shy. Maybe he wasnt at his computer. There could be a whole bunch of reasons why he hasnt IMed you. Ask a friend of yours while hes online and your friend is that talks to him if hes talking back to her. It might be he's too shy.Good Luck.
~Brina~
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we get to shy to call right?
Solemnstar
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He could be. More likely he is slow at typing or can't spell real good or something.I know lots of guys who hate it for those reasons.
Don't just assume he doesn't like you.If he's shy though you may have scared him a little.Try talking to him and see.
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Four times in two months is like NOTHING.. Hes not shy he is just busy .. im him more
XOXOX
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im pretty sure its because hes to shy. i was like that last year and i pretty much only IMed ppl that were like my complete best friends
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hmm... some guys ( myself included) dont talk well on aim. Im shy in real life and it carries over to aim so think through... is he shy in real life or is he just ignoring you... Hope this helps
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well, dose this guy go to ur school? if so u could talk to him there.and dont worry most guys are really shy hjust try and im him or talk to him at school more often and remember it will all work out in the end k
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He probably is shy. I know people that are that way and they get nervous. He might like you though! Which I'm sure he does! Why wouldnt he! l0l x0
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I think a person could be shy over IM. I know I can get that way!
♥ Always,
Maria
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he probably is shy... lol i do the same that haha. but yea... he's probably 97% shy lol. Or maybe he doen't like you.. but i'd go for the shy :P
h.i.h.
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Sorry to say, but he probably just isn't interested in you. Find someone else.
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Dear shy,
Now there's a handy excuse. Being too shy. However, I'm thinking he probably knows that you will IM him first. Unsure of whether or not he doesn't feel that way about you, but I can give you a few tips. First, if you "see" him on the computer, don't IM him first. Let him do it. And if he doesn't, please don't worry about it. You just want to put a question mark in his head. If he does eventually IM you, be friendly, keep it short and be the first one to go. Hopefully, it will leave him wanting more. When you see him, big smile, wave a little and keep on walking. You want him to know you like him but also that you can live with him or without him. That you're independent and confident in yourself. If he's interested, he will definitely throw out a few more hints.
Good luck!
Linda
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He can be shy or busy. If he always answers and feels happy to talk to you then it is all good. If it takes him forver to answer then he might not feel that way. Personally I don't IM a lot of people first. I don't pay attenchion to my bl. It's just there if someone IM's me I always answer and I'm willing to talk but I just don't look at it.
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hmmm.... this guy probably likes you but like you said is too shy to talk you. you should make him feel comfortable around you once you do this he shouldn't have a problem with talking.you should make sure that he is talking to you if he is then there is no problem but if he ignores your im and doen't engage in convorsation then he is probably do this on purpose
<3
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i hate that too -- cause when you IM them you feel like you're bothering them cause they like never IM you first. well, yes, it is possible for him to be to shy to IM you and just feel more comfortable with you IMing him first. if he talks back and all then everything is cool but if he kinda ignores you and never says anything then he could be shutting you down.
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