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another love life dilema
ok this one is going to be long, so bear with me. i have this guy friend (he's 15/m and i'm 17/f) and our relationship is kinda brother/sisterish. a couple of weeks ago, i was talking to him online and he admitted that he had a crush on me. well this totally surprised me, cause i had a crush on him too. i told him and we were both shocked but then thought that we should try and maybe go out (in secret at first, just in case it didn't work out), and just see how it goes. well we did that, and long story short, we made out a few times then i told him that i didn't think it was a good idea. i'm not really sure why i did it, but i did. but now, i think i have "more than friend" feelings for him again (but i'm not exactly sure), but i don't want to hurt him again. oh, and he still likes me a lot. what should i do?
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You like him as more than a friend for sure, but your so use to acting as a bestfriend/sister type to him, you dont know how to act towards him as a girlfriend. Which is something you'll have to get over and just learn that things change a little when you go from being friends to boyfriend/girlfriend, but more than likely you really like him just like how he likes you. Go for it what do you have to lose ? But if you start get weird feelings or something just remember its because yall just been friends in the past, trust me sooner or later you'll get over that, you prolly have a good relationship waiting for you.
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If yall still like eachother than just tell him that youve had time to think about it and youve realized how you feel, tell him you want to make your relationship public and that you wanna be with him, if he still likes you then youll have no trouble! :*:SaRa:*:
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If you aren't sure then you probably don't want to be more than friends.You could try going out a little while longer and see if things change.
It could be you weren't quite ready for the making out part yet.Try going out and not making out for awhile...until your sure of your feelings.
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If you made out and wanted to end ur more than friend relationship, its probably because u feel so close to him in a "hes my lil bro" way. I dont think you should try again. Next time you could get hurt, and your friendship could be ruined forever. If you feel like you really care about him in a more "loving" ;) way then have a friends with benefits kinda thing, that way you can see other people. hope it helps
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If you guys had a Brother/Sister relationship then you were probably really close. If you hook up and break up then things aren't going to be the same way they were before. Don't go out because then you might lose a very good friendship.
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i think you should just remain good friends with him so you dont break the friendship. if your feelings get stronger then try and go out with him again. and there is no point in going out with someone if you arnt going to tell anyone. if you like them then you shouldnt be afraid to tell anyone. i really think you should go out with him. if you like him then go for it.
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Oooh dear. Thats not good... hmm. Well, if you don't want to hurt him any more if you already have, then don't risk ruining a good friendship, especially oen of those brother/sister kinds!! Those are as good as they get, and if you're not sure if you want to ask him out again, then dont ^^ If you felt in the first it wouldn't work out, then don't risk it again. Theres got to be someone out there who is the one hit wonder ;P <3 EJ
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