Ok, well, I really like this one kid, but the major problem is he likes one of my best friends. I needa find a way for him not to pay attention on her and pay attention on me. I need to know what turns on a guy. Like what do you want in a girl, honestly. Thanks for your help<3
WTF answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 8:00 pm: im 16, but i guess same thing
i want somebody whos funny, honest, good looking, doesnt have a short temper,and isnt selfish and tries to get guys to like her more than her friends. you should be happy for them, get over it. [ WTF's advice column | Ask WTF A Question ]
luv2swim109 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 7:55 pm: im a girl but i no some!
1. wear a simple fragrence so whenever he smells it hes thinking of you
2. always flash a cute smile....a guyy will always love to see that he brightened your day
3. Pink is a soothing color that will give you a very realaxed look...guyys like that too
4. never be the mean girl...always be as sweet as possible..they just get old...no one will ever get bored of a nice girl
5. always laugh and have funn when your aroud him cause i guyy loves to see a gril he might like have a good time.
6. try talking to him and just be kool when you talk to him... i no you might be nervious but just remember its just a guyy
EJ47 answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 7:42 pm: Waht would I liek in a girl? No bullshit. Want her to be who she /really/ is, not some wannabe model. An addictive personality.... some you can NEVER get angry at, no matter /what/ they do (unless they cheat on you. Then you can cram a rod up there a**) What turns on a guy? Heh! Any freaking contact by a women or just acting suggestive, if you knwow hat I mean, in general :P [ EJ47's advice column | Ask EJ47 A Question ]
LindasCounsel answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 7:41 pm: Dear Ineedall,
I know you didn't ask for girls advice but I wanted to answer you because most guys don't really know what 'it' is that attracts them to a girl. I am going to try to give you a few tips. HOPE + DOUBT. This is what generally draws a guy to you. That equation = PASSION. You have to let him know you like him but give him a few doubts as to whether or not he can actually 'get' you. (This works for guys too...) Everybody likes a challenge. People like something they have to work at a little bit because it gives them something to be proud of, something that couldn't be easily gotten by just anybody. So, having said that, I would Smile, Be Friendly, Laugh a little at his jokes. Act like you like him as a person. Show interest but don't be falling all over him. If you pull back just a little bit, this guy will probably be questioning why you don't like him in that way. And he'll probably go to great lengths to find out. However, just one more thought. Do you like this guy JUST because he likes your best friend? Or, Did you like him before? Just something to think about.
Good luck!
Linda [ LindasCounsel's advice column | Ask LindasCounsel A Question ]
xXtashmahottieOo answered Wednesday March 16 2005, 7:35 pm: you have two options
1.)Find out what he likes in a girl and become that
2.) or trash her to him
but friends last guys dont so think whisly
ps. tell ur friend that u like him that will help [ xXtashmahottieOo's advice column | Ask xXtashmahottieOo A Question ]
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