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alright..ive liked this boy since i was 8, im not 14, but just a few months ago i kinda stopped liking him. well we were talking and i asked him if he wanted to be freinds with benefits..and he said yea. so its been like a month since we agreed on that, and weve hung out alot with 2 of our other freinds who are fwb and everytime were together i freeze. and i feel that i should make the first move cause i asked him, but i cant because its weird cause i kinda still like him and were not goin out. ive never actually like made out.. i just kinda skipped that base, so i was wondering how should i start, like hold his hand or what??and how can i not be so nervous around him.. thanx so much
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sorry it took me so long to responde...my computer has been out for a LONG time! i think if you wanna make the first move or sumthin, you should prolly start by like laying on him or sumthin. not like directly on top of him or nething but in a cuddly way. like if you 2 were sittin on a couch or wat not together then you could lean on him or sumthin. then juss keep looking up at his face or wat not n when the right moment comes...BAM....you kiss him:-) after that things should slide downhill for ya...good luck and have fun!
ps. be careful w/the whole fwb thing. sumone is bound to end up gettin hurt
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If you are feeling uncomfortable with the situation of FWB, you dont have to be in it! But, if you are totally ready and want to be FWB (and can accept that this could be all you 2 will ever be together) then, make a move! If your not confident at first, start small, hold his hand, give him a small kiss, then, slowly, you`ll feel more comfortable and ease into things. Maybe he is feeling uncomfortable also, and thats why he hasnt made a move either. Start small and work your way up! Good Luck!
xoxo
ali
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