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move on
I really need some advice :(.... I'm trying so hard to get over my X boyfriend that i had for 9 months, and he was my first love but every1 says i need to move on. So i have a new boyfriend but i don't know if i can give my heart to my new boyfriend because im still stuck on my X... but it doesnt work out with him so its so hard!! ... please help :`(
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Give your new boyfriend some time!! Don't break up with him without getting over your X and giving him a chance! It might sound weird but my X did that with me and when I broke up with him her cried because he was in love with me!! So judt give the new guy sometime!!
I hope I helped!!
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i know how hard it is to get over an ex. i just got dumped by my boyfriend of 4 years. its really great that you found someone else to date. that's wonderful. but you just got out of a long term relationship, don't rush into giving away your heart. it sounds like your ex still has it anyways. so first, get your heart back from the ex. evaluate the reasons that it didn't work out with your ex. maybe there's a good reason that you guys aren't together. hope i helped a little
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u need to think about wether your feelings for your new guy is really for him or whether its for your old guy. because if you care about your new boyfriend at all you will not lead him on and you will tell him I had to do that once its hard, I know. but you have to do it.
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i know it is hard to get over someone...but to get over some one you have to take the next step and you did by getting a bf...you dont have to give your heart ot him yet you can wait and get to know him good then with time it will just naturally come
good luck
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you're obviously someone who can't function without a boy...you should be wounded (fatally would be preferrable)
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try to notice the good qualities in your new guy, there's some reason you said yes to him, so you just need to remember that reason whenever you're around him.
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timing is everything hun! you gotta realize that guys arnt always worth it. some are yes, and ur first love is definitly hard. but realize that there are other guys out there, and opening your heart to a new guy may take some time, but your heart will heal, it always does, but realize that there will always be a specail place in ur heart for this guy, but this new guy coming into your heart, can also have a little tiny piece of it.
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Give youreself time.. dont rush into things just b/c of what youre friends say.. your friends are your friends because theyre there for you.. not because they antaganize you.. remember*.. follow your <3 heart <3
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It's not fair to go out with a guy, and let him fall for you...and you're in love with someone else. Maybe you went out w.this guy too soon after you broke up w.your ex...and thats just smthn you'll know from now on NOT to do..but be honest with him. Tell him you're not over your ex but you still really like him (*if you do) and tell him you're not ready to start a relationship when you haven't finished another one. That's what'd I do...but follow your heart
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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You and me both. I am still stuck on my Ex boyfriend that I had for 9 months also and I can't get over him and I am afraid to give any guys a chance but I know I have to and so should you. I know it's hard...I have kinda moved on though and you should too I hope I helped you.
~Jessica
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OK Chick..heres what I think about it.. Its ok to still like your ex.. but hey you shouldnt completely give your heart away anyway. If you give everything to him you still have to have something of your own right? My boyfried broke up with his ex of a year and a half a little more than a month ago..hes doing fine now..he just had a really bad like 2 week period..youll get over it I promise..just think of it this way..YOUR FREE AGAIN!! have some fun youll be alright.
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OMG i feel the same way right now.. bc that just happend to me ok it takes some time to get over it i mean i went out with my bf for 7 1/2 months and he dumps me and ya i felt the same way but dont worry it will all turn out to be good and juss let it go i know its hard and all but it happens all the time!! I mean just think about if you never did go out with him you still could just be good buds like b4 all that started!! ANd dont worry...ITS ALRIGHT TO STILL LIKE HIM!! but ya does your bf know that u still like ur X? maybe you should tell him and if he understands then everything will be alright.. hope i helped hun
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its always hard to give up your first love but there plenty of other fish in the pond, moving on is not the same as getting over it, so just move on and give your life a little change!
good luck hun!
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aww i understand COMPLETELY how u feel....the truth is you cant ever rele get over yer first love no matter how hard u try...u can move on but its not the same as gettin over them becuz once u c them again all yer feelings for them come right back! and u cant help it! so just move on and get new bf's there will be plenty but its okay to still love yer first love! good luck sweetie!
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You need to be true to yourself. Is it really fair to stay with this other guy if you still love your ex? No. Exactly. So you know what you do? You break up with your current boyfriend and you don't get a new one until you are fully and totally over your ex. I don't know how old you are but seeing as your ex was your first love I'm guessing you're somewhere in your teens (correct me if I'm wrong.) You will probably fall in love again and again until you find the right guy. Just get out and spend lots of time with friends. Eventually you will stop thinking about your ex and be able to move on.
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