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hey amber once again another guy problem. But this time its not Chris. OK my freshman year i was dating this guy Ryan we only dated a week but we kicked it for like 2 years. Well hes been in Jial this past year and hes been writing to me practically every day since a year ago. Well i tell him everything b/c were freinds and thats what freinds do, He was there for me through all my ex boyfreinds after him and he was even there for me with Chris. Well since me and chris broke up ryans been trying to get back with me b/c he'll be outta jail in december (hes 19 now). Hes been telling me about these feelings he has for me and that he really wants me back and shit like that. Well this guy hurt me really bad 4 years ago he was always breaking my heart and making me cry, and i know b/c hes in jail he was probably just saying that to say that i mean he has nthing better to do. Well i told him im not gonna sit around and wait for a guy i cant depend on. I told him i dont give second chances b/c u dump me once its ur fault if u want me back. I toldh im all that. Well he wrote me a letter a few weeks ago saying hes gonna give up on me b/c he wants his freedom he doesnt wanna be tied downn with a girl he wants to explore his options and he asked me not to be mad at him. well i wrote him back saying im not mad b/c 1 i knew u were gonna change ur mind as it got closer to ur release date thats why i never told u how i really feel b/c im not up for getting hurt again, then i said 2 im used to guys telling me there not ready to settle down hello chris. Well i got a letter back from him today and he had me in tears for an hour. I never thought id cry over ryan 4 years ago i did i thought it was the end of it but this letter was so harsh i dont know what to say back to him. he told me that i dont know shit that everything he told me was true he really did have feelings for me, he told me never compare him to chris he said right now im to caught on chris a fucking 16 year old who charms me and makes me believe lies, and yet im gonna give him a 2nd chance an maybe a 3rd. He told me i was a waste of his time b/c im oplaying games with him. Then this is what really hurt he said we only dated for a week so how the hell could i have any feelings for him anyway. does he not remember the 2 years we spent together just kicking it at my house and the nights we just would talk forever? i dunno im probably not making snese at all to u but im really emotional right now b/c of him and i dont know how to respond to a letter like that. At the end hes like well write back if u do well then ur stronger than ithought u were and if u dont then i guess i was right about everything. im so gonna respond and bitch him out but what do i say. Im so hurt please help me
Mandy
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I'm not really all that good w/combacts or nething, but for the most part, he told you "how could you still have feelings for me when we only dated for a week" um....hello?! the kid was trying to get back with YOU remember?! so how could he have feelings for you if you juss dated for a week also? u get what i'm sayin?:-/ Also, if anything it sounds like he's jealouse if he's telling you taht you are too caught up into chris. he can't even make up his fucking mind a/b what he wants right now in life. one moment he tells you that he wants to be w/you n the next it's like bam, "i want to explore more" i mean what the fuck? i know you guys have been friends for a while but i don't see the need to get way over upset a/b this. if he's gonna act more mature in the future then yea try to work things out....but if he's gonna keep acting the way that he is now i say screw him...
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