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MAJORLY NEED SOME HELP! QUICK!!


Question Posted Sunday August 15 2004, 9:48 pm

ok heres the deal sorry if it's kinda longg..

well my boyfriend one day got into a fight and i was so like depressed nd shit that i cut myself and yeah but then we got the fight resolved, and like we went out for a week after skool ended and then he dumped me cuz he felt guilty for being my boyfriend and not being able to see me..and he went out with this grl nikki from his camp, then after that we got back together and then after like 2 weeks he dumped me again same reason diff. girl her name is lauren (also goes to his camp) then dumped lauren and went for another grl katilin who came to vist from maryland for a week and then dumped her and now were going out... notice the pattern and i think he does love me on some extent but he also has to be with other girls oh and b4 katilin i went to bahamas for a week and didnt have fone service so i didnt get 2 talk to him and my bff told me that while i was gone he hit on her and told her he loved her nd everything and also now wen were going out he still sometimes tells her that even though shes not interested and like he told me that during the yr. he has to dump me and go out with this gurl nicole to help her make her ex boyfriend jealouse cuz he cheated on her but she likes my boyfriend (whos name is charlie by the way)!! ?? help!!!!!!!!! is he just desparate?? lost intrest?? cheating?? does he really love me??? HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! <3 --> or </3 ????????


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AskMeL123 answered Monday August 16 2004, 9:11 pm:
haha...hes a jerk. thats what he is. not worth your time. trying to be a "player". let him go. move on. its really his loss sweetie. you need to get over him and realize how much more you deserve than someone like him. what a jerk. hope i helped....*Melissa*

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MaNdASzHElP247 answered Monday August 16 2004, 6:09 am:
Dont be depressed over HIM!
Sorry sweetie but it totally sounds like hes completely using you. If he liked you he wouldnt "break up with you to go out with nicole to make her boyfriend jealous" wtf is that.. LAME! You can do alot better than that trust me! Try finding someone who does care. Also hes gone out with another girl, then you, then another girl, then you, the 2 other girls, now you again... ya.. i rest my case. Hes comin back to you cause he knows you care about him and he "wants" someone ALWAYS.. so while hes got you and is goin out with you, hes lookin for the next girl. And it sounds like its gunna be nicole. Which to me. to dump you for her to make her bf jealous ..is just a reason to make you think that he still will like you. Which really its just so you think he will so that way when him and her break up he can come back to you, then find the next victim. BREAK UP WITH HIM! You really dont have a choice unless you want to stay with someone who really doesnt care about you. I'm sorry your goin thru this. Dont cut yourself tho. It doesnt help ANYTHING at all. Just think of it as a chance to get out there and find someone else. Theres TONSz of boys im sure. Hes not the only one! GOOD lUCk! -aMaNdA<3*

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BabyJay04 answered Monday August 16 2004, 1:48 am:
hey hunn! Cant you see hes a playa... and its common for people to cut themselves but its NEVER a good thing to do.. if you think its a way to relive the depressing matter its not! just trust me on this one... maybe instead of taking it out on urself punch ur pillow or something lol and about the boy tell him no the next time he wasnts to go out wit you to show him that he cant get everything he wants! just dont cut its dangerouse....
if you need ne thing else hun just drop it into my inbox i hope everything works out...

xoxox jaycie

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AngelaMarie824 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 11:07 pm:
he seems like a PLAYER to me. Express the way you feel to him. If he doesnt like it.. leave him. for good. he doesnt deserve a girl like u. He put u through all this shit. He should have to work his way out! dont be shy either! just talk to him. then figure out what you wanna do.

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x0inVisiBlekiSs0x answered Sunday August 15 2004, 10:44 pm:
dude..tell him to hit the road! he is TOTALLY taking advantage of you, this is probly one of the biggest players ive ever heard of. please do not waste any more time on this one! i hoped i helped =)


x00o gina <3

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JustAskAlli answered Sunday August 15 2004, 10:26 pm:
Wow.. What a player! Girl what are you thinking? First of all.. he doesnt seem like a real " Best friend " If some guy goes from girl to girl like that.. thats not right. Cutting yourself is also a major issue, alot of people do it but it is dangerous and scary. This kid named charlie is definitley cheating as you can see and i seriously think this guy is desprate. Girl you can do better, find someone who has time for you and isnt off and on with you too! Hope it helped.
Love,
*J.A.A*

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SweetStarx89 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 10:24 pm:
Hey. wow he changes girlfriends faster then i buy shoes and heck i have a lot...okay lol anyways..if you really like him then i guess you can hold on but i say let him go because i kno you feel hurt somewhere between he going out with all those girls and having to dump you and everything. i mean it's just not right that one minute he saw this girl and dumps u for her and then comes back to u...thats just not right and if he really liked you then he would even LOOK that the other girls. i would stay away from him...but thats just my opinion...anything esle let me kno..Take Care..Hope I helped! x3 SweetStar.

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SNAKE answered Sunday August 15 2004, 10:08 pm:
oly shit....that is extemely confusing......but fortunatly i can help. just leave him he OBVIOUSLY is not interested in alot if hes goin out w/ like 50 friggin girls in month or something. u gottawait til he gets his priorities in order. ask him if he really wants 2 b w/ u and only u. if the answer is not a flat out yes ...then ditch him cuz hes just way ova his head in girls right now(lucky bastard). tell me if this helped! !!PLZ RATE ME!!

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bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Sunday August 15 2004, 10:07 pm:
uhmmm he sounds like a player that always needs a girlfriend. id say dont give him a chance anymore, because it sounds like he goes back to you everytime he's threw with someone. Either that or talk to him say i dont like where this is going, why are you doing the stuff your doing and do you like me or not becuz im sick of you breaking up with me everytime we go out. or something like that..

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manda44 answered Sunday August 15 2004, 10:06 pm:
OK!!! 1st off:
this guy seems pretty lame..
2nd off: u dont need that from a guy..
3rd off: he knows that u'll always take him back.
hes dumped u then went with another girl then to you then back.. girl u need to end this for good. i dont think he really loves you. sry to say. but maybe he does. but u need to see what hes doing!! u shouldnt waste ur time. to me it seem like he thinks to himself "well i kno no matter what she's (you) gonna be there." i think u need to break it off. and quit taking him back....
hope i helped. :/
Manda

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