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hey! ask me any questinos oyu hve and i will be happy to answer them if i can! i am onli 13 so i dont know how many i will ba able to answer but i will do my best!!

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E-mail: lilcheerbabi99@yahoo.com
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Location: N.Y.
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Member Since: August 25, 2004
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Last Update: August 30, 2004
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A boy deep kissed(first kiss) me and i am very paranoid about catch HIV through kissing, but should i be worried?

dont worry! you are compleatly safe!!!!!!! just as long as his blood doesnt come in contact w/ open part of your body you have nothin to worry bout! if you are really nervious tho.. oyu could go get tested!

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well...i am a cutter. i have been cutting for about a year now. by the way i am 13 and female. i want to know why i feel so great after i do cut. its like nothing is wrong after i cut. i have tried to stop....but it has never worked.

also... do u know where i could find other people that are self addmitted cutters?

try keepin yuor mind occupied and maybe try to hid all the stuff that is sharp around your house so oyu cant cut! i never cutted my self but if know many people who have! try to have friends around you when you are depressed and have them help oyu stop! or go ot webites about help! oyu might want to tll ou parents but it is your chioce

i hope i helped!

~Aly~

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the theme for my schools formal dance next weekend is "havana nights" (aka a newer different version of the movie dirty dancing) I need some ideas for dresses! and hair styles! if you could give me urls to pictures or sites that u find that might be helpful that would be great!!

well their is this site taht you can take picturs of your self or use pictures of other people, and try makeup and hair styles on you/ them! idk if it is wut you are looking for but if so the like is: www.virtualmakeover.com

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i like this guy. hes really cute and funny, but im in 8th grade and im tall, hes in 7th grade, but hes short. and were in 2 classes together and we always smile and talk to eachother. i really dont know what to do if he asks me out! help me please!

go out w/ him! rerall who cares if he is short! he probably hasnt gotten his growth spurt yet! if you really do like him y would you let a thing like height bet in the wayt?

i hope i helped
~alyssa~

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im a 7th grader and i would like to know if it ok to date a 6th grader i mean hes cute and i talk to him but i dont want people to be all like mean and like talk about it the rest of my life. by the way im a girl....

of course it is fine!!!!! he is onli 1 year younger tahn you! and people may sa y things but who cares cuz when you get older andf think about it 1 year osnt that big of a difference!. my parent are 4 years a part so that is like a 7trh grader liking a 3rd grader, but now thsat they are older it dont seem so big, so dont listen to what prople say b/c if you like him that is a;ll that matteres

hopoe i helped!
~aly~

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What's a polite way to get off the phone with someone. I'm not annoyed with this person, in fact I'm completely in love with her, but I just don't want to turn into one of those 4 hour conversations every day kind of couples.

why dont you try sayin that oyu have been on the phone a long time and your parents bneed to make a phone call, or taht you ned to go get ready for sumtin, and us you don want to lie try sayin that oyu have been on the phone for a long time and that got dont really feel like talkin and tyell her to either im you or email oyu... but if you do that be sure to tell you that you like not mad at herh you just dont want to talk! if shhe is really yuor friend she will say ok! and who knows maybesomeday you will want to talk to her for a long time!!
sorry this was so ong i really hoped i helped you

love,
~aly~


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ive had fast metabolism like since young and im really thin, people just stare at me. they go "are u aneroxeric or something?" and questions like this piss me off, because im not! and i love my body for whatever size i am. im slightly underweight only and im quite a big eater (lol) what should i tell people who ask me questions like these? i dun wanna sound angry or vulgur to them.. please help -Rei

well if they are someone that keeps bugging you abouit it i would sugest goin to a counsler and havin them help oyu and ask a friend, however if it is theis person who like never bugged you about it simply just explain you situation! but dont get too mad, thety are only doin it b/c of their own insicurity

hope this was help
~aly~

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i recently moved to a new town and dont know any kids here im going to a new highschool starting 9th grade in 2 weeks but im scared i wont make any friends...is it easy to make friends and meet people there???thanks

of course you will make friends!!! butdont try to hard of people might not like you as much! be sure to be yuorself and do things taht intrest you! try doing some afterskool activites orsumtin like that! trust people will like you

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hey i think i might be overweight. i'm 5'7 and weigh 105 lbs. my bff said i'm a beanpole. but i think i culd lose weight. help.

105 is not heavy for 5,7". in fact it is very light! you may think it is a big number but since you are so talk the weight is evened out to make you look skinny! oyu are lucky to have a good body! and dont listen to anyone callyuo fat b/c as long as you happy w/ the way you look notihn else matteres

i hope i helped
~xocheerblondiox~

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ok so theres this new girl at school whos really cool and stuff and she invited me to her birthday party coming up this weekend and i dont know what to get her and when i ask her she just says "oh you dont have to get me anything" which means get me somthing but im not gonna tel you what i want got anyideas for what i should get her?

well their is a bunch of stuff! i would either talk to one of her bestfriends and ask her wut you should get her or you could just get her like a 30 doller gift certificate to her favorite clotihng store, and if you dont know that, just get her 1 for the mall! im sure wut ever it is she will like it!

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i have been babysitting scince i was 11 and now i am 14 and the kids start gettin out of control what should i do ???

sighned undicided

this is a tough 1! but it is reallyhow you feekl bout it! like i know you said the kids are getting out of control but if you like babysitting i would sugest telling the famil that you babysit foer that it is getting really hard to get the kids to coroporate, ahnd then try switchin to a family thst olni has 1 kid and that is not real young! however if you dont,klike it anymore just simply twell the family that you have to many things going on in your life and you dont have time to babysit! the family should understand!

i really hope i helped you!!!
goold luck!

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Hi! I'm a 14 year old girl. I'm noticing that I'm interested in girls more than guys. I want a girlfriend. Not a boyfriend. But I can't tell anyone about my sexuality because people don't accept gays. I can never have a girl spend the night thought because I don't want something to slip. But I really want an intimate relationship with another girl. Its that ok?

well sure its ok, im not gay but i fell that people should not have to be limited in their sexual life! and if people xcant except you for who you are than i thikn oyu are better off leavin them! try joinin a after skool activity that supports gay or any activity tat does!

i hope i helped you
~xocheerblondiox~

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