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Member Since: August 25, 2004
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Last Update: August 28, 2004
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hey. my name's ren. well, to start off. i just started back to school, everythings going great. i'm so happy. i'm doing good, getting every accomplished. i know it's my junior year & i have to buckle down.

but theres still a part of me thats lonley and sad. all i feel like doing is sitting in my room, cry, listen to my music, cut, and read.

i'm a recovering cutter. i still every-so often cut, but.. i don't know what wrong with me.

please help. (link)
Wow your a fucken cool kid,Jesus christ you and your little gothic people just need to like go black jump off the empire state building and die , My god seek fucken help duche bag, DO I LOOK LIKE A TRAIN PROFESSIONAL!!! --pretty great
Well, first of all, you could focus on school work. You're a Junior and you can barely write. Doing good? Every accomplished? lonley? That should keep you busy. It might be hard work.
And don't cut. don't try so hard to be a depressed goth. In other words: Shape up.


When I am embarrased or telling a slight fib, (or maybe a bigger fib hehe) I blush! My face turns all red! For example, if someone says "Do you like Josh" and I say "no" (When really I mean yes) I blush, and you can tell I'm lying because I blush! Or when I embarrass myself, like say I fall, but try to make it seem like it didn't bothe me. You can always tell it bothers me b/c I blush! Blushing is soooo embarrasing!! Any tips on how to stop the blushing? (Or is it not possible?)
Signed,
Bashful (link)
Being embarrassed whyen you start to feel yourself blushing just makes you more red. haha. I should know. I tend to cover my face or look away and make it even worse. Just...pretend like you dont feel the redness coming on. It won't be AS bad, that way XD.


Hello, over the summer a few of my freckles got REALLY dark on my face, and I don't like the way it looks. I heard that lemon juice works... is it true? How much would I put on? And how often? (link)
Wear lots of sun screen when you go out. Or be like me and camp out at the computer and avoid all sun contact.
If you get freckles, just cover em with make up or sun screen or something and after a week of less sun they'll fade.


whenever i get to be friends with a guy, i start to LiKe them...i can never be just friends really and its so awful! then after about a month i start to stop liking them...but my guy friends, i dont wanna like them at all EVER (except if we go out sometime ;)) what should i do how do i not like them (link)
I have the tendency to fall for friends too, and it can be kinda frusterating, but at least you can weed out the crappy ones right away. IF you talk to a friend about how you feel, and in a few weeks they're still not ok with it, they're probably not great of a friend. Whatever you do, though, don't kiss or touch, in any romantic/sexual way a friend, unless you're willing to lose what you have with them and start over.
You can't really stop liking someone, but try falling for someone else, or just being sure not to get too physically close.


I have this sisgusting red thing on the lip of my eye. My mom said it's a "sti?". How do i get rid of it! ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
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Just dont' wear make up. If you're one of those people who piles on the eyeliner, just lay off for a few days. Also put a towel with hot water on it, maybe.


My boyfriend is currently in the military, and I was wondering about mailing different types of care packages and fun gift letters instead of boring ones... Does anyone have any great ideas of easy and fun things I can send to him? Or any sites that could help a little. Thank you so much! (link)
I am filling this out simply because I have personal connections *coughs best friends friend coughs* in the military. Yes. So I am answering. To please people. Let's see....care packages...for one thing, send something sweet, yes, but that he can use. Because it's really stupid, for instance, to send dvds that he can't watch. Maybe send pictures of things he likes (you, family, i dont know) on a hook with a nail so he can hook it to his bed or something? Or a book you know he likes?


i like this guy, but he lives kinda far away, and i promised my ex boyfriend that i wouldn't date any of his good friends, but this guy is his good friend and they knew eachother alot and then my ex boyfriend moved here, and the guy i likesmokes pot...only sometimes, but i don't really like that part, and i dunno what i should do...please help!!thanks! (link)
Not to sound awful, but are you just TRYING to complain? I mean...you like a guy who you can't have because you like someoen else who doesn't want you to like him and you don't want him sorta because he does drugs? Come on, if this is real, either go out with him or don't. It's your choice. People who don't know you or the situation well enough (like your ex and how close you guys are) can't really judge...
or can we?


Some times my pubic hairs kinda hurt when i pull them, so i yank them out and they have this sort weird sticky white thing on the end. after i pull them out it doesnt hurt there any more. this happens every once in a while and i yank em because if i dont it hurts to touch there. anyone know waht these are? i call them evil hairs. (link)
Why the hell would you yank your pubes? That's actually disgusting. Pain for nothing, because bald lower-regions in guys are absolutely revolving. Ew. If you want to look more neat n' tidy, though, just trim your pubes for god sake's. EW.


I'm really attracted to my friend. Hes 17 years old and is a total hottie. I really would love to spend the rest of my life with him. He gives me chills down my spine to see him happy and when hes sad it kills me ... literaly. The only thing is, that is stopping me from being with him, is my religion. In my religion it is against my code to have sex with another male. What do you think i should do? I really want to be with him and have sex with him but when i do i feel bad... help please. im an 18 year old male. Weve known each other for 5 years now. please help. (link)
Well. Does he want to have sex with you too? Because if he's straight and doesn't, then it won't work anyway. If he does, go for it. Fuck religion if it messes up your life, it's not worth having.




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