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whenever i get to be friends with a guy, i start to LiKe them...i can never be just friends really and its so awful! then after about a month i start to stop liking them...but my guy friends, i dont wanna like them at all EVER (except if we go out sometime ;)) what should i do how do i not like them
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You're definitly boy-crazy right now! Which, by the way, isn't a bad thing! =)
Just try to think of your guy friends as people who you hang out with and laugh with but never would have a more romantic relationship with. I know it may sound weird, but think of them as your "girlfriends". It should help =)
Good luck!
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I have the tendency to fall for friends too, and it can be kinda frusterating, but at least you can weed out the crappy ones right away. IF you talk to a friend about how you feel, and in a few weeks they're still not ok with it, they're probably not great of a friend. Whatever you do, though, don't kiss or touch, in any romantic/sexual way a friend, unless you're willing to lose what you have with them and start over.
You can't really stop liking someone, but try falling for someone else, or just being sure not to get too physically close.
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It's my theory that a girl and a guy can't be friends without one or the other or both liking the other one at some point in the relationship. It's just how life goes, hormones and everything ... if you like someone enough to be their friend why wouldnt you like them enough more than friends... so don't worr y about liking them .. maybe just don't do anything about it. **Kacie**
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As a young girl,it is natural for you to be attracted to guys. Sometimes this can be mistaken for liking them in a boyfriend way. Usually what girls go through with guy friends are that they feel comfortable around them and view them as very close brothers. This is normal to like guys in a friendly way without wanting to get into a boyfriend relationship with them. You shouldn't try to not like them, that would be unfair. What you should do is point out how youlike them and value that.
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Yea, what can you do?
-xXoBrianna
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