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happy...yet not.
hey. my name's ren. well, to start off. i just started back to school, everythings going great. i'm so happy. i'm doing good, getting every accomplished. i know it's my junior year & i have to buckle down.
but theres still a part of me thats lonley and sad. all i feel like doing is sitting in my room, cry, listen to my music, cut, and read.
i'm a recovering cutter. i still every-so often cut, but.. i don't know what wrong with me.
please help.
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ur just depressed. and your stressed out about being a junior and worrying about the future. just calm down and just do ur best that's all that's important. and after youve taken it slower if it still there then go see a doctor or someone
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cut?
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Everything is wrong with you. Your life sucks. Noone loves you. Noone cares. Now go cry, cut yourself some more and hope you die from blood loss.
I laugh at your pain you stupid attention whore.
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There's nothing wrong with you. I know how you feel. I mean, I've scratched my arm up a few times too. As much as I hate to admit it, and ever so often I do in fact go back to it. =/
I know what you're saying though. I know the feeling of wanting to be alone...yet hating being isolated inside all the time with nothing but your music. It feels like there's no company and there's never going to be for all eternity, but that's not true.
I;m so glad that you are happy now...no matter how happy you are, lonliness or sadness will always follow. But it doesn't mean it will defeat you, the point is that everyone has all kinda of different emotions that are impossible to escape...but there are ways to steer them in the irght direction and make for better times and be able to make the best out of situations...
I don't know what else to say...but there is nothing wrong with you.
Just tyr as hard as you can tobe confident adn don't push people away. As much as people are annoying when all you want to do is lay inm yhuor room alone, you come to realize that they help you...even if they don't realize they are helping you.
~GL~
=) Gessyka_-* <3
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theres always a part inside everyone thats always sad and lonely. ure not the only one.. i suggest u share this with ur friend. a trusted and very close friend. or keep an online journal(lock it if u must), do wadever u feel like doing. turn up the music and dance like crazy. it usually helps alot! telling u to stop cutting would be like telling a toddler to stop playing. each time u feel like cutting, stop urself. its not worth the pain dearie.. besides it will leave scars. scars of ur pain. each time u see it, it reminds u of ur pain. nobody wants to be reminded of their pains right? what u need is a good hug.. *BIG BEAR HUG* take loads of care okay? tell me how it goes. love. -Rei
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well one of ur propblems could be that u r stressed, absessed, or nervous its good that ur tryin to stop cutting. i might be somthin w/ ur boy friend or ur family, cousin, aunt, anything
somthin that ur worried about that will do it anything at all there r many things and ur just gonna have to find the right one or maybe ur just not happy w who u r or just ur self well i hoed i helped =^) rate plz.
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Wow your a fucken cool kid,Jesus christ you and your little gothic people just need to like go black jump off the empire state building and die , My god seek fucken help duche bag, DO I LOOK LIKE A TRAIN PROFESSIONAL!!! --pretty great
Well, first of all, you could focus on school work. You're a Junior and you can barely write. Doing good? Every accomplished? lonley? That should keep you busy. It might be hard work.
And don't cut. don't try so hard to be a depressed goth. In other words: Shape up.
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As a recovering cutter, I can honestly say that I understand the internal turmoil that you're feeling right now. First off, just know that you aren't alone in the way that you feel... if you were, emo music wouldn't be nearly as popular as it is. Secondly, there is nothing "wrong" with you, per se. You simply choose to direct your anger, hurt, and frustration in a different way than most people do. However, cutting can be a dangerous and disfiguring habit to maintain, so I recommend that you either talk to a trained counseler, a close friend, or even read up on a website devoted to the issue (www.ruinyourlife.com is my personal favorite). If all else fails, please feel free to IM me on AIM: hey kid chemical is my screenname. So take care of yourself and get your life together... I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.
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Go out and have fun..and focus on stuff that makes u happy so u wont feel depressed or w/e and wanna cut..
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Go out and have fun?
-xXoBrianna
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hmm, im sorry to hear you feel this way. Maybe you feel stressed because of school and other things and you feel the need to cut. Whenever you feel like you want to cut you should just do something else to let your anger out. Getting some excersise, writting down how u feel, or talkin to a friend or somene about it. Maybe a therapist could help u. Another thing is that i think that everyon feels very stressed and depressed once in awhile, ur not the only one its just that everyone chooses to handle it diferently. Everyone has their happy moments and sometimes half you is very sad, maybe talking to a therapist could help..best wishes..im here if u wanna talk.
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i usta be like that (without the cutting) believe it or not... i think u should juss hang out with friends more, that helped me a lot! im guessing you have some good friends who will be there for you! thats what their there for, go out and have a good time or juss stay home and talk about things! long talks with good pals are always great =D get back to me on how things go
*jesikuh
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