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Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do...
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try goin up to him after class and be like "hey, wanna hang out sometime with some friends in the class?" and see where that takes ya...keep me updated, I would really like to hear how things work out! -hope I helped
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ok well you should flirt alot! and yeah go ahead make a move! if your waiting for the guy to make the move, well he pobably wont because thats just the way guys are....they are always waiting for us...which is stupid i think, but hey thats the way it goes! lol so yeah just flirt with him, when me and my friend liked the same guy we told each other and we decided that if he liked only one of us the other couldn't get mad about it, cuz it was the guys decision not ours...if ya get that at all, well just take my advice and good luck hun!
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Ok male dancers are hot!It's a known fact.But I would definately make a move.And soon.And depending on your age ask him casually if he'd like to go for a cup of coffee or a smoothie or something.But don't act like it's a date unless he clearly wants it to be.And if he says no just act unphased about it and say "Ok,maybe another time."
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hey gurl, theres nothing wrong with a girl making the first move to a guy!! in fact, i think guys actually prefer gurls to initiate first! who said u wouldnt be good at it, have u tried it out yet? try it out first! who knows it might work.. dun care about the other gurl who likes him, she should be seen as a factor, not an opponent or rival in love ;)
hope that helps, much appreciated if u could rate me and good luck when making the first move, let things go with the flow, take care! -Rei
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girls that make the first move are a total turn on nothing to worry about there. make sure he doesnt have a gf though
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I would leave him alone if he has a girlfriend, especially if they're serious. If he's with someone, it is his job to break it off, or make a move on someone else.
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Its perfectly fine to have girls make the first move. But I wouldn't be too forward, you should tell him you like him then ask if he likes you, then go from there.
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first of all, i dont think u shud mess wit him since he does have a girl. U wudnt want sumone doin that to u. BUT, once he's single, go ahead! Sum guys are shy too, and if he likes u, he cud be waitin for u to make the first move, cuz he's not sure if u like him or not. If u find sumbody, u shud go after them. But first, u need to talk to yur friend. Find out how she wud feel if u went out wit him. But be a friend. If she still likes him, u shudnt try to get wit him cuz it'll make u seem like yur not a good friend. I know its hard to give up a guy, but friendship is way more important then that. :)
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well ask him if he has a girlfriend and if he does then lay low until you know that he has broken up with her and then tell him in a note or in person that you would like to get to know him better. and ask the girl if she realy likes him, maybe you have a friend that could go out with her or something
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girl there is nothing wrong with making a move on a guy!Trust wut ur friend said.If he likes u..u should definitally make a move!Good luck babe!Much <33
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well even though your friend likes him it shouldnt stop you from makin a move if shes a real friend she would understand .. nd even thouhg he may have gf doesnt change anyhting either .. so go ahead make a move ..nd you wont be bad at it all you have to do is flirt with him a lil nd eventually tell him you like him .. well good luck nd i hope i helped .. *Megan
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If you like him then ask him if he likes you but ask your friend if its ok if you make a move because losing a friendship isn't worth it over a guy.
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First off, don't worry about what other people think. (Including the guy!) I could tell right off the bat that you were a little afraid to announce that he was in dance! There is no shame in that! That's hott!! Okay, so your best friend is right to an extent- you should make a mov (not a sexual one) but a slightly flirty/friendly one! In dance, strike up a casual convo with him to let him know that you are interested and you are curious as to whether or not he is interested. Say something like: I think it's awesome you're in dance...if I had a boyfriend and he were in dance I think that would make us closer because that would be something we have in common...then say: Is it like that for you and your girlfriend? By saying these simple statements you get the point across that you have taking a liking towards him and you are interested and he can see that you are curious about things!! If he answers back " I don't have a girlfriend"....then YAY and go from there- If it turns out he has another girlfriend-bummer, but there are lots of fishies in the sea! Don't be too scared to do this- you have nothing to lose...and if for some reason he is totally not interested and is like rude and like UGH im not interested be like uhmmm ME NEITHER I was just trying to be friendly...that way you play it cool either way..just whatever happens-dont stress it--have fun! :)
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Maybe while you are dancing, you could stand next to him and start talking to him. Ask him if he's single and if he is, tell him to meet up with you after class or something and ask him if he likes you. If he does, then make your move girl! Hope I helped and good luck :)
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if you like the guy, then go for it. who cares who else likes him or what other people think. just talk to him after class and ask him if would like chill one of these days. its really not that hard. just gotta get up a little confidence.
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Well if you dont know for sure that he has a gf make ur move. Tell him you like him. You might be scared but hey it might be worth it in the end..hope i helped ya!!
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