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hey ya'll wasup i go 2 eastcobb kddle school i am in the 7th grade i have great friends and im a nice person to hang w/ and i love to play soccer so fill free to ask me for advice!!!
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well see i go camping with my grandparents.. and i really wanna bring my boyfriend along one time but its kinda the time i get to spend with my grandmother.. how do u think i could ask her to bring him? (link)
i think that you should just be straight up with her and tell her the truth and say you want to bring your boyfriend! hope i helped good luck!


There's this guy that I like alot, but we never talk or anything at school. I', not sure if he likes me or not, but I think he might cause we always make eye contact in the halls. But anyway, my question is, I found out that he has a screenname, and my friend said I should im him, but I don't know what to say, because I never talk to him, so I don't want him to think I'm weird or something. So,how do I start out when I im him? Sorry so long! Thanks for your help! I RATE 5'S for nice advice! (link)
i did/have that exact problem but then i just forget that i like him and just talk like when you talk to him talk about like movies and sport and music the casual stuff! lol anyway hope i helped! good luck!


Ok first of all...this is really long but please read it because i really want some help. My dad has seemed to be a lot more meaner all of a sudden. Well hes always been mean sometimes but I mean hes just started to become physicaly mean. I was downstairs before because I was checking his email because a friend of mines mom was emailing him. So, I kept going down there to check it. (while he was on the phone down there) He started to get really annoyed and started yelling (like almost silently so of course the person on the phone couldnt hear him) and he just freaked out. He got off the phone with the person..and I walked passed him because I was going to go upstairs. He grabbed my arm and goes Whats your problem? And I said you! And hes like why? And I said nothing and attempted to go back upstairs. But he gripped me harder and it hurt because it was like squeezing my skin together and burning. Then he like grabbed my whole body and was pulling me towards him saying come onnn give me a hugg..Aliciaaa what is wrong. And he just wouldnt let me go upstairs. I was like uhh what the heck..whats so bad of me wanting to go upstairs? But yeah he just kept gripping onto me. And yeah I was of course trying to fight back and was quietly screaming. When I went upstairs my mom goes..what was going on down there? And I said dad wouldnt let me go..and he wouldnt let me go upstairs. She goes pff yeah right uh huh. And I was like he did!! didnt you hear me yelling?? He was gripping onto my arms. And she just kept saying riight im sure. And just now we were eating dinner in the living room and his business phone rang. He went and picked it up and goes..blah blah blah..then goes to go turn down the volume on the tv. And I go ooohh my goooshh..now we cant even eat dinner without you having to be involved with your business? (he is wayyy overly obsessed and its all he cares about..and no matter where we are he will always talk about it) He didnt answer me and gave the phone to my mom. Then he came over to me and did his little silent yelling thing and goes..you shut the h*ll up! And I go oh my gosh im just trying to eat dinner. And he just kept telling me to shut up. Then for some STUPID reason he grabbed my plate and took it out to the kitchen. I go oh my gosh what are you doing?? Now I cant even eat?!? He came back out to me and grabbed my arm tightly and it burned again and he pulled me out to the kitchen. He goes you eat this out here. Then I tried to leave the kitchen because I was going to go up to my room..but he wouldnt let me and just kept pushing me back. Then I finally went up to my room and slammed the door and locked it. He came up and got it unlocked and came in and goes..what the h*ll do you think your doing? Shes trying to talk on the phone and all your doing is yelling. I was like oh my gosh you were the one who was yelling and who started it. you didnt havvve to answer the phone..and even when were eating dinner! and hes like bulls**t blah blah blah. Then I kept saying..get out of my room! And I pushed him out. Now he keeps coming back up here and asking..did I leave the remote in here? and I go no...and he just stood there and then left. Then he came back up and was like it has to be in here...and then he searched all over. It was stupid because we both know he didnt bring it up here..and I was just like uhh what the heck?? He just seems to like to start fights and likes to keep bringing it back up. My mom doesnt believe what I say..mostly because I think she would be too scared to say anything to him. So, she just pretends to not believe it and doesnt do anything about it. He is not a alcoholic. He just gets mad easy and for stupid things. Do you think hes becoming abusive? What should I do?? (link)
it sounds to me like he is becming abusive if your mom doesn't believe you you should go tell an adult at school or someone who will believe you! hope i helped! good luck!


There's this girl at my school who's a total bitch and talks about everyone. She always says nasty things about people who aren't just like her and thinks she's so much better than everyone. Just the other day she was making fun of a guy that's in a wheelchair & in the hospital because he's having problems with his lungs. She said "wow what a retard... Why are we wasting our time talking about him?" like it was some big joke. People told her that was REALLY mean but she burst out laughing like it was the funniest thing in the world.

She also found out that me & my friend said something about her.. Now she yells shit at us in the halls & even drew on a picture of us in a classroom. I'm so sick of her acting so childish. We'll both tell her to grow up & get a life but she just keeps on doing it & dragging other people into it. It's getting so irritating and really getting to me.

What am I supposed to do? I can't just ignore it anymore. (link)
well maybe you should slap her because it sounds like she really deserves it! lol hope i helped!
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my friend is totally crushing on this guy. she loves him so much that she went and made a statue of him made out of aluminum foil. but............he doesnt like her at all. i have no idea why. she's really pretty and nice. he's mean to her in the way that he always laughs at her when she messes up and sometime i hear him talking about her. the problem is that the guy she likes, likes ME. and if i tell her, then shes gonna hate me and think i'm a liar and she will be heart broken. if i dont tell her in time,she's gonna tell him she likes him and she's gonna get told off.
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well i think you should tel her straight u and if she hates then she hates you no guy is worth throwing away a friendship! hope i helped!
xoxoLauraxoxo


For the last few days (maybe 5 days) my stomach has been hurting. Does anyone know what it could be. Other than that I feel fine (link)
mabe you're just getting a stomach virus because it has been going around the last few weeks or mabe its the first stage of getting your period if u haven't had one yet! hope i helped!
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I have this friend in the 8th grade im in 7th and shes an only child and she thinks shes soo hot but shes dont wanna be rude but really ugly....she has this crush who has a boyfriend now and she thinks he likes her but he doesnt and shes just ugly im sorry but i cant help it I need help and shes always braging about her looks and clothes and voice and stuff.


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welltell her that the guy she likes doesn't like her and just be honest w/ her!


Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do... (link)
If you like him then ask him if he likes you but ask your friend if its ok if you make a move because losing a friendship isn't worth it over a guy.




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