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I'm a 14-year-old girl, and I have this guy who's been my best friend for over a year. Me and him have gotten SOO close lately, and I really REALLY like him. I told him that I like him, and he just kinda pretended I didn't say anything, so I just didn't know what to think. Then all my friends tell me that when they talk to him one on one, I'm all he talks about, and he always puts my feelings before his. They say that he's always very sad, and then I walk into the room, or call his cell phone, or he even just talks about me, and that really brightens his mood. I really don't know what to do, because I really like him, can't tell if he likes me, but I kind of get the impression that he does, but he kind of seems scared. HELP!
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Maybe he's just scared bc he doesnt want to ruin yur friendship but then again, he likes yu soo much that hes stuck so hez confused bc many realationshipz that dont work out dont end in staying friends...and maybe hez afraid of that.
you should definately sit down and just explain to him that your more than willing to give it a shot with him and if it doesnt work out, youd also be more than happy to stay friends with him afterwards..make sure you reassure him that one way or another, your friendship with him will always remain!!
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I think he'll come around in his own time. just be open for a relationship with him
hope it works
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u know what he could be scared just like every other tipacle guy does. its ok just sit him down and tell him the way u feel and ask how he feels dont get me wrong ull be scared but its worth it ok keep e posted thanxs....samantha
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he definitely likes you...he dropped a lot of hints. most girls believe that guys should eb the ones to ask a girl out, but really theyre just as nervous as a girl would. and hes obviously nervous so ask him to go tot he movies sometime and then hook u[p then he'll probably feel more comfortable asking yoou out to go places.
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miss. U REALLY LIKE HIM,
i would have to say go for him. its kinda like a world series thing. you have to win him ova. kuz i know from experiance.. that you need to tell him stright up. or he wont feel fo u.
hope i helped.
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well some bois are afraid of gettin hurt too so he may be afraid or he might be afraid of losin your realtionship so sit him down nd talk to him bout it .. well ihope i helped nd good luck nd if yoh ned to talk im me [ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
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Ok you have two choices:
1)Leave things alone and see how it all develops, you know, just kinda wait a while until you're totally sure of his feelings for you.
2)Confront him. Ask him if there's anything more than being just friends happening between you two and if there's anything more. *This could ruin your friendship if you don't get the answer you want and could make things uncomfortable so tread carefully.
Good luck and keep me posted ;) <333
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