Okay I'm a 14 year old girl I'm home schooled and there is this guy that i like. (USE to like) He told me that he wasn't intrested in girls right now (That was early this year) so I have been acting like I hate him which is seriously hard for me sence I do hate anyone. Nadia a girl that I know is like a model, seriously she totally thin beautiful all of it (of course I'm the ugly one, Im not skinny but I'm not fat just the norm and I have awfull buck teeth so that doesn't help my looks) anyways he is like always checking her out which I find is fine but my heart says something different because when he looks at her I feel like something cold has hit me. I hate that I care! But the problem is when Nadia is not with me he always does his best to show off and it makes me think that he likes me but I know that he doesn't.
What my question is how do I get my heart to stop caring about him because its starting to kill me! Please answer this, It will be deeply appriciated!
snowwalker69 answered Thursday August 19 2004, 11:50 pm: hun, when your 14, everything is sooo confusing. Your self confidence is an all time low. Look, I'm just normal weight, and most guys don't have a problem with that ... and buck teeth aren't bad. A good guy wouldn't care about that. You like the guy, which is obvious, and you know he doesn't have feelings for you. there are so many other guys out there that would love to have you. And your friend, Nadina, she isn't perfect ... believe me. Ever heard of "the most beautiful rose has the sharpest thorns" .... well, that's how i see the situation. Just remember, being yourself, and not obsessing over someone elses looks, will help you more then anything, and will attract more guys. All guys love girls with confidence and respect for themselves. [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
Girl answered Thursday August 19 2004, 11:01 pm: I would just find sombody else to obses over. I would take him saying he's not into girls right now as his "nice" way of saying he's not into you. Does that sound mean? I'm not trying to be if it does [ Girl's advice column | Ask Girl A Question ]
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