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well, over the years i've sturrgled through school, not with friends, not with grades, not with teachers, but i get so nervous over everything. It's so stupid! I get so nervous over everything....like i'll be nervous to go to class tomorrow cuz i'll think i'll get in trouble or i think the teacher is gonna hate me!! I hate it, i've always had this thing ever since 1st grade only my mom knows about it. It's rele dump and i feel like an as*! I jus started 7th grade and i feel so stupid! i feel like a mental house, what should i do, :(
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Try to think about what might really be bothering you. So what if you get in trouble for frogetting your homework? What would really happen? Try walking with your friends to class or something and laughing. It will get your mind off things and make you feel better. And you are not an a**.
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yur not an a**! U could jus be paranoid about sumthing. Talk to sumone about it, and see if they can help u. And always look on the bright side of things. Be confident in making friends. If u dont believe in yur self, how can u expect others to? If u keep thinking people are gonna hate u, it'll jus make u feel worse. Think about why people LIkE u instead. I hope this helps u make more friends and be happy. :)
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maybe you should calm down. you seem like a nice person, so you why would anyone hate you? are you nervous because you feel you have to be perfect or something? well i think you should talk to a therapist or something so they can figure out why you get so nervous
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OK.. i have had similar problems in the past where i have been nervous over certain things and here is what helped me thru it. I tried to just take deep breaths n think good thoughts-like find ur happy place(even tho it sounds really tacky it works)and then i tried just to relax n think of things or do things that make me totally relax.
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your not mentle. you might have an over active nervous system or something like that. you might even have a perfection problem. or you could just be really shy.
take everything simply ONE step at a time. tell yourself (but be nice) that you're being unreasonable and that everything is going to be fine.
also, write stories about your fears. i know it sounds wicked bogas, but its a great way to start a book, and who knows, you might become America's next great writer. :-D hope i helped.
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im kinda like that too, i always want to know what we're going to do in class the next day and all that. im not really sure what to tell you but you shouldn't feel stupid about it at all. actually, im glad to know i'm not the only one like this. if you want to talk more then leave one in my inbox. hope i helped.
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