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Hey, my name is Jill and I can help you with your problems. I give very good advice and there is no dilemma I can't handle. So come to me if you need help with anything. I'm here for you guys! :)

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hey i like want a gf but nobody likes me
what should i do to get girls to like me
mr. mysterious

dear mr.mysterious,

how do u know no one likes you? besides, girls like guys who are confident. if you like yourself i'm positive more girl will like you.

Here to help,
Jill

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ok well i have a girl friend and i LOVE you soo much lik you cant imagine and lik we make out and stuff bu not alot. lik i want to and soo does she bu lik in a movie i can neva find lik the right moment ta. Can you help me ? Ohh and i hav ta get her sumthin for christmass oveously lol bu i dont kno wut to get her . her bday was in october and i got a her lik a realy nice neclace that she wears every day . i dont want to repeat my sel and get her anotha neclace bu i want to get her some thing nice. bu lik i cant get her earings or lik a ring or any thing cant say y thouh. Any ideas ?

Well....it's really hard to explain, but when the moments right ull just no. Anyway about xmas gift, I would say something homemade or from the heart wood be so cute, i wood luv that kinda stuff. Try asking her wat she wants. If she says I dunno, then come up with anythign that u can think of that is romantic. She'll love it no matter wat it is, trust me. Good luck!

-Jill

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i have a problem... i'm STILL obsessed with the backstreet boys. My brain keeps telling me they broke up and some are even alcoholics... they are husbands and fathers and will never bust a move like they once did, but my heart tells me they will get back together...like U2. When they do they will be unstoppable, and maybe even nick carter will run for president, like in the dream i had last night because "i want it that wayyy" So how do i focus on other things, like eating and respiration, when bsb has consumed my mind? I just wish they would "quit playing games with my heart."

okay....well this is gonna sound mean...but u need to get ova them! The bsb are over and are never comng back. Just keep telling urself that and u'll be able to sleep and breathe.

-Jill

p.s. if that doesnt work u should def see a counslor

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I have one toe that is significantly longer than my other toes. This wouldnt be a problem except i like to wear sandals. They make my feet feel free. I get very upset when people question my toe abnormality. I have thought of cutting it off myself. What do you do think is the best approach?
Sincerely,
A Toe Troubled Teen

Dear A Toe Troubled Teen,

Don't worry about people making fun of you. Don't cut it off urself! It's extremely dangerous. Go to a foot doctor, and see what they think is the b ast idea. Dont' worry you'll be fine!

-Jill

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well me and my friend have been best friends sience the 1st grade and sience last year she's been actin different to me... we used to get 2gether every day! but now all she want to do is hang around w/ this otha gurl whos badnews i tried talkin 2 her but its gettin worse everyday now she doesnt even sit w/ me on the bus and i really dont want to loose her as my best friend but i dunno wat else to do! plzz help me!

I know you said you talked to her, but why don't you try talking some more. If you explain to her how you feel, i'm sure she'll start to think about her actions. If that doesn't work, try giving this other girl a chance. Talk to her or hang out with her and your best friend. Maybe she's not as bad as she seems. Maybe she's just misunderstood. But don't worry, I'm sure evrything will be okay. Keep me posted! Good Luck!

-Jill

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im 15 i like a girl who thinks i like her best friend!!!!! i know a bad sitwation im liveing it..... and every one thinks i like you.. i might and idk how to be sure



ah what do i do
signed
David
confused

Dear David,
lol well y dont u tell the grl that u like her. Cuz then she'll no that u don't like her best friend. And about liking me, i don't no how u couldnt lol j/k but i think u shood go for this grl that u do like. Good luck!

-Jill

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im 12 1/2 and in 7th grade and like this guy. sometimes i think he likes me too, but other times i think he likes this other girl. please help me

Well..don't worry it'll be ok. If u like this kid give it sum time. I'm sure he'll begin to see what a great grl u are. And about this other grl..don't worry about her. She probably isnt realizing wat shes doing. Good Luck! Keep me posted!

-Jill

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hey ok.. i like this kid and he doesnt like me back but thats not the problem.. i want to be friends with him but i dont want to make a fool of myself in front of him. I have his s/n but i am always afraid to talk to him cuz i dont know if he will talk back or what he will think if i talk to him.. do u have any conversation starters or just know anything i can do just to at least start to be friends with him?? Thanks!


Im 13

Hey...dont worry about him thinking you're weird just talking to him. Talk to him online and in person every chance you get. The more he knows about you, the more he'll start to like you. For conversation starters, try talking about the terrible food in the cafeteria or wat kind of sports he likes. DOnt talk about yourself too much..try to keep the topic focused on him. Whatever you do...be yourself. I know it sounds cliche but it works. Keep me posted! Good luck!

-Jill

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well....hi 4 the 1st thing.....nd i need help....there 2 gurlz i lik but 1 doesnt lik me nd the otha does....i dnt no wat 2 do...pleez help


ur bestest frend....craig =)

Alrighty craig (i wont embarass u in public and say my nickname 4 u...by the way anyone who calls u my nickname 4 u is a losa cuz i came up wiht it first) lol ok......well my first intention would be to tell you to go for the girl who likes you. That's prob the best choice anyway, but if you like the other girl better...try to keep persuading her to like you..but dont completely blow off the otha grl cuz thats just plain mean! Keep me posted! Good luck!

Lylab,
Jill

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I LOVE my girl friends best friend.. and she likes me.... would it be wrong to go out with her... would it hurt her to much... please help me!

I think that you should decide whether or not you really truly with all your heart love ur g/f...then decide if u really truly with all your heart love ur g/f's bff. Once you make the decision then comes another one. Decide who you would be happier with. If it is ur g/f's bff dont be afraid to tell ur gf the truth...if it were me id rather have the truth than a lie. Keep me posted! Good luck!

-Jill

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Well, I love writing novels and I've been working on novels for years . I have one published poem and I've recieved one editors choice awards and mom and dad are proud . See I'm 13 and I'm in school and I really want to find an agent and a publishing company . The only thing I ask is that I benefit from the profit that my books may make , and that if I can find a publishing comp. or agent online to assist me with this mission that seems so impossible . Well if you can help me thanks and I'll definetly give you a rating . Well thanks and have a nice day .

Well..I can relate. I LOVE writing. It 's like my passion. Anywho, I'm not sure how to help you but I wish you luck in whatever group you take!


-Jill

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i dated this one guy for almost a year and a half...but he broke up w/ me this summer before he entered highschool and im still a year younger..but we go to the same school and have a class together somehow. he hasnt gone out with ne1 since we've broken up but he did like this one girl a lil...we had a really good relationship and it became really natural for me..now im having trouble like going out with other guys cus im too experienced about wat they do to get girls and how to get them and allll that stuff i never had to worry about..i have a hard time getting over the guy i dated forever sometimes...sometimes all these feelings come back but i kno he doesnt want to do nething cus hes enjoying being single and he wants ass...but why isnt he going for ne1? alot of people like him..hes mr. popular..mr. quarterback of the football team...and me n him never went farther than making out? does he want ass from other girls? and he flirts with me soo much all the time...but thats kinda his personiality...i really dont understand him..im enjoying being single but i miss him sometimes...what should i do? my friends always tell me he def. still likes me...but i d k? should i get over him completely or try to go back out with him even after that long time

I think you should try to get over him. He sounds like a jerk anyway who does that. I think he's so0o0o not worth it. Good Luck!

-Jill




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Well this is my problem.. I really like this girl but so does my best friend. Well she likes me and my friend said he won't be friends with me if i go out with her.. I don't know what to do.. PLEASE HELP!!

Okay....well...actually for the first time in my life I'm not sure what to say. But the best advice I could give you is to think about this girl. Is she worth giving up a friendship for? And think how long you have known this friend...are they worth giving up for this girl. I can't make the decision for you but all I can say is let your heart decide. Please write back I want to see how this turned out. Good luck!

-Jill

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hey i love my best friend who is a boy should i go out with him?

Yes, I think you should. Unless he has a g/f. Otherwise, go for it! Good luck!

-Jill

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My ex-boyfriend, and I really need 2 talk, and discuss our break up. But I dont know if I should or not cause we broke up on a bad key. And even if i did talk 2 him i wouldnt know what 2 say. Please help, and i'm 13.
*Sign*
Confused

Dear Confused,
Okay, you definatly should talk to him... talking is always a good thing. About what to say, just say I want to know some things about our breakup can u just please talk to me. If he's a good guy he'll listen to u and talk with you. If he doesn't listen then he is not worth talking to! Good luck!

-Jill

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ok i have a BIG problem and im sure that it happens to a lot of people.. but whenever something happens that makes me mad i always want to kill myself and its scary cuz sometimes i almost do.. i dont no wut to do and i need some help before i actually do!!! does this mean im like mentally ill or something?? should i see a doctor or anything?? thanks..
xox manda

This is a very bad thing. You should go to a ocunselor or something that can help rethink your choices. I wish I could say there was nothing wrong with you but there is! Go find some help and keep me posted! Good luck!

-Jill

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Hi Im 14 if I fell Off my bike and broke my leg, do you think my bf would still love me?

Of course! If your bf really loves you he won't care if u broke your leg. Good Luck!

-Jill

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My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!!

Going against your parents is never the right route to take. Having someone pierce them whose not a professional can get u seriously hurt. Your ears can become infected and then you would have to ask your parents to tkae u to a doctor.
Take my advice and don't get your ear pierced!
Good Luck!

-Jill

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Is Britney Spears going to marry the back up dancer that she had to loan money to, to but her wedding ring? .. Or will they spilt before then. Also, is she just marrying him so she can take over * The Newlyweds * on MTV ?

Ok...It's hard to tell wether Britney will marry Keven Federline or not. Knowing her reputation she might just marry him then dump him. But let's have a little faith in Britney, this could be her one true love.

And about her taking over the Newlyweds, I highly doubt that. I don't think she wants to become the next Jessica Simpson. Hope this helped!!

-Jill

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