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Ex-Boyfriend Problems
My ex-boyfriend, and I really need 2 talk, and discuss our break up. But I dont know if I should or not cause we broke up on a bad key. And even if i did talk 2 him i wouldnt know what 2 say. Please help, and i'm 13.
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Confused
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Only talk to him if you want to be friends with him.
If you want to be friends with him--- Call him and say we need to taalk. Talk to him about all of this going on. IMing helpes more then face to face, the phone will work 2!
If you don't want to be friends with him--- There is no point in talking to him. Don't waste ur time, like someone else!
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xoxo, Maris
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Dear Confused,
Okay, you definatly should talk to him... talking is always a good thing. About what to say, just say I want to know some things about our breakup can u just please talk to me. If he's a good guy he'll listen to u and talk with you. If he doesn't listen then he is not worth talking to! Good luck!
-Jill
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If you really want to know about the whole break up thing, then go for it. Talk to him. I've been in this situation before, our break up was horrible but I really wanted to know why he broke up with me. But, just sit him down, or call him, or talk to him through AIM and just be like "We really need to talk and I just want to know the truth and basically the truth on it and I'm hoping you'll tell me. But, I know our break up was bad and it's in the past or whatever, but I really want to know why you broke up with me and stuff..." Just say something like that, I don't if thats what you wanted to talk to him about, so if it is then say something like that, if it isn't and you still need help on what to say to him, then I'll try to help you out, so just leave a message in my inbox if you still need help. Good luck hun!
xoxo Kourtney
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GUYS ARE LOOSERS!..lol.. tell him how u feel and u didnt want u guys to end on a bad key! hope i helped xo0ox
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talk 2 him nd tell him ur sry the breakup ended relli bad
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You should def. call nd talk to him. I no that at first it would b a little awkward but jusst call nd tell him that u wnt to discuss the breakup.... from there it'll b easier to get the conversation going. And u will def. feel much better at the end knowing that u got that problem off u chest.
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yes you should talk to him.. IM him or call him up n just say.. i really need to talk to you its about our break up... go from there. good luck!
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Okay well just talk to him because you don't want him to be mad at you and never talk to you again! Maybe he still has feelings for you or just wants to know if your okay with what happened! Just talk with him.
-Katie
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JUZ START OFF BY SAYIN 'HEY. WATS UP?' AND THEN JUST CARRY ON THE CONVERSATION FROM THERE.
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just talk to him like usual and just start with hey how r u hoo do u like things like that and then branch off
hope i helped
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Why do you need to discuss your breakup? A breakup generally means that a relationship is over - it has nowhere to go.
I'd figure out why you want to talk - did he dump you and you want an explanation? Do you still like him? etc. Then figure out how it will benefit you.
For example, if this guy dumped you and really doesn't want to be with you, you're only making it harder for yourself if you go tell him you still like him.
If you still decide to talk to him, you'll want to get things clear in your head and figure out what you want to say BEFORE you start a conversation with him.
Good luck.
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First - work out WHY you need to talk to him. This moves onto step Two
Two - work out WHAT you need to say.
Three - He's your ex, and thus you're probably not going to see him again much (unless you're friends, but I'll get to that later), so say what you want to way. He can't affect you and you feel better for it.
If he's your friend then it's probably best that you talk to him and resolve whatever it is that's bugging you - otherwise your friendship will probably disolve anyway.
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