Member Since: September 2, 2004
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( 16/m/tx/junior in High School )
here's the deal: i've always been kinda...um...not cool lol or w/e u wanna call it but...i kinda found myself and figured out how to dress and do my hair to where i look my best...and now im starting to get noticed...but by all the wrong people...i mean i know the ugly weird chicks have feelings to but my god...i just want a pretty girl to finally notice me in good ways, because that's NEVER NEVER NEVER been the case, i mean every once in a LONG while there'll be a pretty one, but i'm just talking in general...i'm one of the nice guys, not one of the bad boys or w/e, and i know i'm not deadly good looking but i'm sure of myself...i mean i think i look better than most...that's not arrogance talking that's just confidence...a small amount but anyways...i'm really shy and idk exactly what to do when i'm around realllly good lookin girls...i mean i can talk their heads off online but in person i freeze up and stutter and all that stuff...lol...( jeeze i sure typed alot lol sorry ) any ideas on how NOT to be so shy...and how to get noticed in good ways? instead of ways like "oh god there goes that one kid...what's his name again? he's weird..." idk i'm just tired of the nice guys never winning...it's always the jerks and the bad boy types :(
thanks...
-Kyle
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first. understand that it does not matter what a girl looks like.
next. understand that if you freeze up around the sort of girls you want to be with anyway, then in the long run you'll be worse off if you happen to get into aa relationship with one of them.
otherwise, stop thinking of people in stereotypes. that's just not cool. you can't make people like you, and thinking in stereotypes and with such opinions isn't going to help.
lastly. THERE IS MORE TO A GIRL THAN HER LOOKS!
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My ex-boyfriend, and I really need 2 talk, and discuss our break up. But I dont know if I should or not cause we broke up on a bad key. And even if i did talk 2 him i wouldnt know what 2 say. Please help, and i'm 13.
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First - work out WHY you need to talk to him. This moves onto step Two
Two - work out WHAT you need to say.
Three - He's your ex, and thus you're probably not going to see him again much (unless you're friends, but I'll get to that later), so say what you want to way. He can't affect you and you feel better for it.
If he's your friend then it's probably best that you talk to him and resolve whatever it is that's bugging you - otherwise your friendship will probably disolve anyway.
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Well I'm "going out" with this guy from school..But when we talk we have like no conversation and I was talking to him about his ex-girlfriend and he said he didnt want her knwoing about me cuz they might be together in the future...well idk i didnt say anything...i think he wants me just for stuff...and when hes sick of me he'll leave...well i dont really like the guy i mean im just going out with him to see if i start liking him and so far our "relationship" is going nowhere. hes a pretty cool guy but i think we'd be better off as friends.. Hes a druggie, he drinks (im not into that) and he likes to rush into things with his gf's...ok so heres my problem. i wanna tell him i dont think going out is a good idea and im gonna tell him why i think that but i dont wanna seem..well mean i guess..the guy has been wanting to go out with me for over a year now! he was all excited cuz i told him i would do stuff (if i was comforable enough) to him but i wouldent go all the way...sooo idk its like hes using me for a while until he goes out with his x again...i wanna break up but i dont want him mad at me..any advice?? Thanks and sorry its so long!
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explain it to him the way you just did. then break up with him.
simple, yet the taste amazing.
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I pay close attention to recurring themes in my dreams, as I believe that it can be my subconcious self trying to relay important information that I am missing in my day to day conscious life. For the past several months, I have had a recurring dream... well the dream itself is always different, but in the dream for a period of time my vision is terribly blurry. I can't read information, or I have a really hard time making out what is right in front of me no matter how hard I try to focus or squint my eyes. I know this is a bizarre question, but I can ususally figure out these things on my own and the answer to this one is just not coming to me. Any serious responses are appreciated greatly. Thanks! (link)
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'Circle of Life' theorem
Your dream is about not understanding what it is that you're dreaming about. What a paradox.
Or, it could be telling you that "[you] have a really hard time making out what is right in front of [your eyes]".
Aka the dream.
Seriously, without knowing what's going on in your life I can't answer this question. The message may be the you have to try and work it out for yourself.
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