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um...whatta i do?
( 16/m/tx/junior in High School )
here's the deal: i've always been kinda...um...not cool lol or w/e u wanna call it but...i kinda found myself and figured out how to dress and do my hair to where i look my best...and now im starting to get noticed...but by all the wrong people...i mean i know the ugly weird chicks have feelings to but my god...i just want a pretty girl to finally notice me in good ways, because that's NEVER NEVER NEVER been the case, i mean every once in a LONG while there'll be a pretty one, but i'm just talking in general...i'm one of the nice guys, not one of the bad boys or w/e, and i know i'm not deadly good looking but i'm sure of myself...i mean i think i look better than most...that's not arrogance talking that's just confidence...a small amount but anyways...i'm really shy and idk exactly what to do when i'm around realllly good lookin girls...i mean i can talk their heads off online but in person i freeze up and stutter and all that stuff...lol...( jeeze i sure typed alot lol sorry ) any ideas on how NOT to be so shy...and how to get noticed in good ways? instead of ways like "oh god there goes that one kid...what's his name again? he's weird..." idk i'm just tired of the nice guys never winning...it's always the jerks and the bad boy types :(
thanks...
-Kyle
xxxkylestylexxx < my aim
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oh kyle. you would be the kind of guy i would want to date. if that makes you feel any better. but to get noticed, maybe get active in sports, or go places where you know people from your school will be. when you meet new girls, start over, and talk to them with the CONFIDENCE that you have! =)) go get em tiger
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You do infact seem like a nice guy, BUT... one thing I would like to point out
"by all the wrong people, ugly weird chicks have feelings to by my god"
That's kind of harsh. Aren't you basically doing the same thing to them that some "pretty girls" are doing to you. Believe me, there's a lot more than just looks to a girl.
If you want a "pretty" girl, be a little more outgoing. It's a good thing that you're sure of yourself, and I know how the whole "you can talk on the internet but freeze up in person" thing goes, you got to learn to take the akwardness and just go with it. One of these days a pretty girl will notice you, just don't forget to do things a little more outgoing so you can BE noticed. It's NOT always the jerks and the bad boy types that win.
Something about girls is that most of them truley go for the personality rather than the looks...(MOST) So if you try and stand out a little, and maybe gain the courage to strike up a conversation with someone who you think is "pretty" (and has a personality) then just go with that. Don't be someone you're not, and eventually maybe you can get the courage up to ask her out on a date.
I hope I helped, just remember, LOOKS aren't everything, you might find someone who's not the best looking, but she'll be just right for you.
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you should just be yourself- girls would be lucky if they had you but their not taking the time to notice you so.. thats their lost NOT YOURS! your gonna meet new ppl every day.. so just be who you are n dont try as hard.. all the "popular" people have had to be in your position before! but you could try going up to one of the popular guys or something n yah.. if you wanna talk more about it IM me xtoxickisserx
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u cant be noticed 4 what ur not, b/c sooner or lata, their gonna find out. u should try to find a cute girl who isnt full of them selves lke these other ones u seem 2 be crushing on. Cute girls seem to pick some ugly guys too! (if u think that describes u...) nd thats only cause they think they have good personalities. So work on that. or u can get good grades and tutor a cute girl! lol :p
XoxO Alissa-Marie...
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okay this is coming from my p.o.v - I like the nicer guys .. it all depends on the girl though. i like guys im completely cmfortable around and not one that im going to be the one having to strike up the conversation or the only one talking. So when you're with a "pretty girl" dont be afraid to be yourself .. if they dont like you for who you really are then they really arent worth your time in the first place. You'll eventually find someone but usually you find that person when you're not really trying. Try just to be friendly and talk to the girl that would probably be the easiest thing to do. Hope i helped .. Drop One in my box
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first. understand that it does not matter what a girl looks like.
next. understand that if you freeze up around the sort of girls you want to be with anyway, then in the long run you'll be worse off if you happen to get into aa relationship with one of them.
otherwise, stop thinking of people in stereotypes. that's just not cool. you can't make people like you, and thinking in stereotypes and with such opinions isn't going to help.
lastly. THERE IS MORE TO A GIRL THAN HER LOOKS!
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There are so few really good guys left, so the first thing I need to say is don't change. Always be true to yourself no matter what. You should never have to compromise yourself to please anyone else. The best way for you to get a pretty girlfriend, is to stop thinking about getting a pretty girlfriend. I mean, isn't it easier to be friends? So, if you be a good friend to them (the pretty girls), they can get to know you and see what a great guy you are. Please be careful, some of the most beautiful girls are ugly on the inside.
I wish you the best of luck and I home you find a beautiful girl who's inner beauty matches her outer beauty.
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