Question Posted Thursday February 8 2007, 11:22 pm
sorry, this is gonna be long. so i like two boys. lets call them a and b.
ive known a longer. hes kissed me before, but told me he didnt have feelings for me. but that was a while ago. he kissed me again two weeks ago, but we havent talked about it because im kinda scared about what hes gonna say. hes one of the cutest guys in school, and a lot of girls like him. hes also kind of a "manwhore". not really, just kind of. but hes real sweet when im with him and gives me butterflies and makes me smile like no other person. he flirts with me a lot too. but we kinda have had an on and off relationship since ive known him.
okay, now b. ive also had an on and off relationship with him, cuz i rarely see him and stuff. hes really nice though. everyone knows him as the nice guy. and hes cute. i met him through my "big brother". me, "my bro" and our friends all do bad shit. they all smoke and drink and we do shit like that, but he doesnt. hes always like the designated driver and stuff cuz hes straight edge and stuff. hes more shy though. he doesnt really flirt with me that much, not in the way a does anyways. a flirts with me like.. more in actions. b flirts with me more just like joking around. we joke around and make fun of each other. hes sweet too and also makes me smile and stuff, but hes off to college next year.
so who should i go after more? or who would be a better choice?
"a" does sound like a "manwhore-ish" type of guy...which prolly means he just wants to use you.... if you want to be with him go for it...it sounds like you like the "bad boy" type... if he is sweet to you and gives you butterflies and you really think you like him go for it....
charmed3fanatic answered Friday February 9 2007, 11:23 am: in my eyes b would be the better choice because. he seems more commited and would be a better boyfriend than a just from what you told me;; i think that a would just try to take advantage of you;; but b would not. even though he's off to college next year.. if you two are serious about eachother than it will work out. and i think he shows more of an interest in you than a does =] hope everything works outt ;] [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
kiran answered Friday February 9 2007, 2:24 am: Okay "a" has kissed you before and he told you he had no feelings for you then he did it again. All the girls like him right? He might like one of them so best thing to do is to find out if he likes you. I know its hard to ask him but thats the only way to find out.
"b" is nice and sweet but he is going to college next year. Just think about who you really like more. b seems nice and stuff so he might also be a good choice. Think about who is more your type. a might be a big flirt and does it to all the girls you are just gonna have to think deep down who you really need to go for, who is your type, and who is a nice decent and guy who would respect you. I can't choose who is best for you but I hope everything goes well! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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