Question Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 7:14 pm
theres this boy that i think i really like. hes not the coolest person ever (not that it should matter...but i havent even told my best friend that i like him yet) anyways, what are some subtle ways to hint to him that i like him cause in one of my classes we sit next to eachother and talk all the time...so what are some things i can do to hint it? cause i want him to know but im not ready to say it yet.. thanks
Additional info, added Saturday December 23 2006, 11:58 pm: and what should i talk to him about online? =] . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? kiran answered Monday December 25 2006, 9:40 pm: Talk to him about stuff you have in common. Maybe flirt a little. When you pass him smile at him but not a big happy friendly smile just a shy smile. Look at him when he's not looking and have it noticeable enough that he will look over at you. Online you can talk about what you normally talk about then. Then when you are ready you can tell your friends and him and you 2 will be together! [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
wipethetears answered Sunday December 24 2006, 1:23 am: try to talk to him about things he is intrested in...like sports and stuff...or if your not intrested in any sports then try stuff that happend in school...
Do you hang out any where that he hangs out? because if you do then talk about what happends there...stuff like that...
And when the time comes where you want to go out with him and you want to tell him you like him... its best for you to tell him!!! Guys (normally) like it when you tell them that you like them straight up!!! my b/f found out by best friend and I didnt know..then the next day (which he still hadnt said anything to me about it) the WHOLE school knew about it!!It was embarassing but it was cool in the end..cuz I got his # and now weve been going out for like 3 monthz!!so GOOD LUCK and let me know what happens!! [ wipethetears's advice column | Ask wipethetears A Question ]
stephanerd answered Sunday December 24 2006, 1:16 am: In my experience, hints don't work on guys. Not in the slightest. Just be like "hey, you wanna hang out/do [insert fun thing here] sometime?" [ stephanerd's advice column | Ask stephanerd A Question ]
xomichelle891xo answered Saturday December 23 2006, 11:31 pm: Hm, well if youre talking thats a good sign! If you guys have full conversation than youre already past the hardest part. Just play it cool - seriously, someone else asked a question JUST like this today and heres what I said to them:
"Guys like a girl that is laid back, so try to just act like he's any other person WITH a touch of flirt in your tone so he knows youre interested! Also, be nice. The whole bitch thing doesnt work. Ive tried being in control and act like I dont care but guys ended up thinking I was a bitch! He'll like you for YOU. Act sweet and nice, compliment him and be gracious and classy. Thats how you'll impress him :]"
So, yeah pretty much just act like I said up there! Just be relaxed and be nice to him. If you want another kind of hint, Physical contact of any kind is really good! Find any excuse to touch him..not slutty just cute. Like if you want to know what time it is and he has a watch on, just touch his wrist. Or be playful and if you guys are flirting and he teases you, be like "ugh!" and push his chest lightly, then you'll both end up laughing. ♥ [ xomichelle891xo's advice column | Ask xomichelle891xo A Question ]
Esty-Metallica answered Saturday December 23 2006, 10:22 pm: im not really sure about giving hints but all i can really say;
is just be kind & yourself
comment him that you ike what his wearing or like something that has to do in school like " your good @ that.." Tell him he looks cute.
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