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DO I LOVE HIM?
ok so i have a boyfriend now and me and him have been going out for about 6 days. he confuses me so much because he never tells me what hes feeling.the past couple of days hes been really nice and been giving me kisses and holding me n stuff but today he was acting wierd...i was walking with him after school and he didnt even wanna give me a hug or kiss good bye...he just left.also i think he never kissed me because he was gonna fight this gang but he never did...and he got his phone taken away yesterday but i dont now if thats really the truth.he never calls anymore i miss the old him.
be honest is it me or him with the problem?...i dont now im confused.and do you think my relashoinship with him is gonna last?
advice...please...thanks...
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Question for you: Do you care about yourself and want to do something with your life? Are you a bright, young woman with wishes, dreams, plans, and goals for herself?
Then run the other way! You've been going out with someone for 6 days and things are changing? You ask whether you love him? (If you ask then then answer is almost always no - it's like having pain, you know when you feel it.) He dissed you because he was going to fight a gang??? And you don't know whether to trust that he really had his phone taken away or whether he just didn't call you? I don't know about you, but this is not the kind of person I would encourage a relationship with. You can't build a relationship with a gang-banger who values fights above his future and your relationship.
You wanted advice, so here it is: let him drift away and look for someone who's not likely to be in jail in the near future.
Best of luck to you.
Sabine
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From my point i dont really think its you. it might be if you are changing too, or acting different. Your realtionship sounds like mine sometimes... Im in sort the same thing. If i was you dont get closer to him if youre not already that close cuz he sounds like he is sorta "drifting" away. This is just my opinion.
so i hope this helps a little bit.
~remember michelle loves you~
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Well since he didn't attempt to call or give you the attention he normally gave you I think it's him with the problem. If he was dedicated and cared he would show you the same affection as he always has. I think you really need to talk to him and find out what's wrong. I can easily say if you don't communicate and tell him how your feeling and ask him what is wrong it won't last. Also, if he can't tell you how he's feeling or discuss things with you I doubt your going to want to be in the relationship with that because it makes it a lot harder. If it's something you really want to continue than put the effort into talking to him and figuring out what changes need to be made. The earlier you nip the behavior in the butt the quicker it changes and doesn't become a pattern.
Hope I helped!
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