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my bf popped the question but backed out
Me and my bf have been going out for a long time now. i really love him and always have. Now a while back he asked me to marry him. We're both 15. I know we're young and all but we were so sure of it. But then one day not to long ago I randomly got a friend to ask him if it was still on. He said no that I had called it off along time ago. Well then my friends came back and told me and then she went back and told him that I never did and he kept saying that I did. Is he just unsure about it or something or do you think this is his way of telling me that he doesn't love me anymore? What should I do. I really love this guy.
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ok well first off your wayy to young to even be thinkinh bout marrying someoen. I mean your 15 your goin to have many bfs in your lifetime. Bfs come and go believe me i learned that wen my bf broke up wiht me. i learned that there are many guy out there so i wouldnt worry bout just one. We are young and really dont kno wat love is yet. I dont kno if he loves you anymore i mean he might hav be just telling you that. At this age i think that we dont really love eachother because its wayy to early yet to even be thinking bout stuf like that. This time in our lives is wen we are supposed to have fun and live life to the fullest and not worry bout boys and stuff. I say ust have fun adn dont worry bout it. talk to him about it and dont hav your friends go up to him. Im really not sure but your way to young to be worryin bout osmeone guy loving you. ok well i hope i helped
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-katelyn
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It's nice sometimes to hear that someone would want to marry you in the future. That doesn't mean however, that you're engaged. It's just a nice thing to say to someone. Like "I'll love you forever", it's not a promise and there's no way of telling if things will turn out that way, yet you say it anyway just to be sweet and because you feel that way at the time. You two aren't officially engaged and shouldn't become so until you are at least 18. If you have any doubts that he loves you, you're not ready for such a big committment as engagement. Don't look too far into this. He loves you just the same. Everything is still "on". You're still together, he still wants to be with you in the future. He's just maturing, growing up, and getting a better grasp on what he wants for his life and when he wants it. He knows now that he's not ready for engagement, which is a very positive thing. If something is still bothering you about all of this talk to your boyfriend about it. If you're seriously thinking about marrying him in the future you've got to learn very soon that having an open mature conversation with each other will solve practically all of your problems. If you wanted to know if it was still "on" why didn't you ask him yourself? Whatever feelings caused you to do something like this, get rid of them right away. They can be detrimental to your relationship. Having a mature, one on one conversation would have been the mature, adult thing to do in that situation. It's the choice that makes the most sense. Why get someone else involved needlessly? Who knows what can happen to information when it's passed along through other people. Don't do this type of thing again. It's silly and a waste of time. Just talk to your boyfriend for goodness sake. Anyway, I hope that you realize that everything is just fine with your boyfriend and that nothing about your relationship as changed. Good luck. :)
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You were so sure you wanted to get married, So sure that you both love each other, YET you're sending messeges to each other through a friend?
Gorw up. Neither of you are ready to get married.
You can't even talk to each other, how can you even call this love?
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It sounds like there's a miscommunication going on between you two. You should talk to him face to face and see what's really going on.
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