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He said he'd wait but he didn't


Question Posted Thursday April 19 2007, 12:12 am

I liked this guy and he said that he loved me and he still says that. I have a bf that I still love that is going to move at the end of hte summer. Well me and this guy that I like (not my bf) decided to wait until next year to go out. That way I don't have to break up with my bf before I have to. Cause me and my bf have to break up before he moves. parents rules. but now this guy that I like has a new gf. At first i didn't really care to much about it cause I knew that he still loved me. but now he told me (not meaning to hurt my feelings) that he's falling in love with his new gf like he DID with me. Well he says that he still loves me and that its never going to change. But I'm worried cause what if he's still going out with her when me and my bf break up and then I find someone that I don't want to give up just like that? I really like this guy but I don't want to break up with my bf right now and I don't want to make him feek like he would have to just give up on this girl that he really cares about for me. Plz help. What should I do?

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mgfg answered Thursday April 19 2007, 9:54 am:
In life you will find that timing has a lot to do with who you are with. Planning to be with someone too far ahead usually does not work out, just like you are now finding out. This boy that you would eventually like to be with now has found a gf. Who knows what will be happening at the end of the summer. For now, concentrate on what you have and enjoy the moment.

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DepthofHeart answered Thursday April 19 2007, 9:29 am:
Your boyfriend is still moving. Don't you think it would be easier to just break up with him now? It doesn't mean you guys couldn't still be friends, besides you said you liked another guy. You don't want to get too close to his current girlfriend if you want to be with him. You don't want to break them up either. If I were you I would break up with my boyfriend and then make sure the other guy I liked knew I was single. Then it would be up to him, but he said that he loved you even if he is falling in love with another girl. That doesn't mean he loves her, or ever will. Good Luck.

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