well this is a very complicated situation but here it goes. i have a best friend. i like him. he doesnt know that i do. i used to like him but that was a totally different situation and anyways i thought he liked me back but it turned out that he didnt. but then i told him i didnt like him anymore and after like a week of not liking him i liked him again. but now like a month later i think i might stop liking him and i dont really want to. but lately he has been acting rather strange. it seemed like he was being too clingy and it was really annoying me. i think someone may of told him not to cling on to me so much or maybe that he was annoying me and now he still always wants to hang out with me and all but whenever we talk it seems more awkward. i dont know what to do. does he like me? i dont know if i like him anymore. i dont know what to believe anymore. thanx in advance
Additional info, added Thursday April 19 2007, 1:46 am: oh yea i have this plan and i want to know what you think. i was thinking over a i m to ask him if he likes me as follows:
do you like me?
(well yea but only as friends)
oh ok i was just wondering because i heard rumors and stuff like that.
(do you like me?)
nah just as friends =)
(cool)
so that way if he doesnt like me i wont tell him i like him (which im still not even sure how i feel about him) but if he says yea then ill tell him i like him. thanx again. =). Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? wipethetears answered Thursday April 19 2007, 10:54 am: I like your plan it sounds like it will go well! but if your not really sure on how u feel then you might want to wait for a while.
Cuz my b/f is totally in love w/me but i keep doubting myself that i love him... so im not really sure either, and if i do love him im afraid we will break up and in the end me finally realizing that i do but him not give me another chance.if you get wut i mean. so dont lead him on until your sure, because you could both get your heart brokded.
Hope everything goes ok.
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mgfg answered Thursday April 19 2007, 10:29 am: If you are unsure of your feelings towards your friend, then don't say anything for now. Let a few days go by and see where that takes you. Don't be in such a rush to know whether he likes you or not. If he does, it will be obvious by the way he talks to you or does something nice for you. Do not listen to rumours. They are about the most useless things in life and can often be very hurtful.
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