|
using me?
ok iv really like this guy for a while, and hes the first guy that iv actually reaaaally been interested in. wev kissed and stuff befor but wev never gone out. During the summer i kno he liked me because he was really protective and stuff.but now he wants to do like sexual stuff with me , and i kind of want to but im not sure if hes using me or not. Also i dont want to seem cheap, but its kind of hard because i do wanna do that stuff and i really liek him. usually i lose interest in guys pretty quickly but this ones got me crazy haha. so what should i do? how do i find out if hes using me?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
don't do too much unless you are actually together because if he isn't willing to call you his girl, then you shouldn't be willing to give him more.
]
if he's not using you than he will wait. you shouldn't have sex or do sexual stuff with him unless your perfectly sure that you want to do it and loose it to him.. make sure he's the one you would want to loose it to because once it's gone you can never get it back and if he's using you than your screwed. i would say don't do it. andddd wait until you two are dating to do sexual stuff; becauseee than you know forsure that he actually likes you. but he might still be using you; so make him wait. ebcause if he likes you he'll respect you and wait
]
Even though you're crazy about him, I wouldn't do anything. If you're afraid of being used, I don't think you should be doing anything sexual with him. You should lose it to someone you really love & he should love you back. Since he's not your boyfriend, than you'll probably feel used after you guys do stuff because he can go off with another girl & do the same thing.
]
ok..im 14 && lost my virginity at 13.. if your a virgin u should really keep it for a while... because you want to do it with the right guy... I didnt listen to that advice i hated hearing but now i feel the same way... itd prolle be better if u dont do sexual stuff if your not going out either...
~Shelly-boo~
]
I wouldn't go right for him. Don't let into him right away if you're afraid of being used. I think that you should get to know him before you do anything that you might regret later.
]
More Questions: |