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ok iv really like this guy for a while, and hes the first guy that iv actually reaaaally been interested in. wev kissed and stuff befor but wev never gone out. During the summer i kno he liked me because he was really protective and stuff.but now he wants to do like sexual stuff with me , and i kind of want to but im not sure if hes using me or not. Also i dont want to seem cheap, but its kind of hard because i do wanna do that stuff and i really liek him. usually i lose interest in guys pretty quickly but this ones got me crazy haha. so what should i do? how do i find out if hes using me? (link)
don't do too much unless you are actually together because if he isn't willing to call you his girl, then you shouldn't be willing to give him more.


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At school I've liked this girl for a while, and some of my friends have found out that she might like me too. I was going to ask her out, but then I found out that she is getting married soon. It's not a lie because, I'm guessing that is what her family believes in. Although she might not be getting married for maybe a couple of years, should I still ask her out? (link)
definately ask her out. maybe you can change her parents mind. don't let there beliefs stop the way you feel.


At school I have liked many girls and everyone shoots me down. Mostof them tell me that I could be cool enough to go out with them if I didn't hang around with the nerds. I am not a nerd but I hang out with them because they're nicer than the popular people I could hang out with. Every time I tell A girl that they still shoot me down. What should I do? (link)
don't change your friends for one person. you need to find somebody that will except the fact that you like the nice nerds better than the popular bitches. :]


i have this boyfriend, right, so our relationship is going really good, excecpt the fact that whenever hes around his friends, he doesnt pay any attention to me and acts like a total jerk. but then when were together alone he treats me like a princess . whats ronge with this picture.. helpp ! (link)
that is crap. i would tell him that you like how he is when ya'll are alone, but it bothers you when he is like that around his friends, and if he doesn't change, then he isn't worth it.


I work with this really great girl that I didn't initially have feelings for, but as I've come to know her, I can't stop thinking about her. I'm not good at picking up girl's signals, but it looks to me like she flirts with me a lot. Laughs at my jokes, smiles a lot, I'll catch her staring every now and again, but I've misread these signals before.
Plus she's got this boyfriend who's kind of clingy, emotional, neurotic and all this. They've been going out for awhile and live together, but they won't anymore starting this fall. He'll be in another city and she has said that they don't have near the chemistry they did earlier(I guess that can be said for everyone though) and that she hadn't broken up with him yet because of the way he might take it.
So I guess the question's pretty obvious. Do I take the chance and tell her that I truly care about her and potentially ruin the friendship, which is very strong? Or do I say nothing now, take no chances, and wait until the fall when they're not living together? Or just quit being a dumbass about it and move on, which is probably what will end up happening in the end anyway? Thank you for your time. (link)
if you like her that much, then moving on is rediculous.
it is obvious that she doesn't have strong feelings towards her boyfriend, and girls usually only tell stuff like that to there best girl friends, or somebody that they could see themself with.
tell her you like her, but don't make a move or anything.
tell her you don't want to ruin your friendship, but you can't help your feelings, and you like her. i know it sounds cheesy, but come on, who wouldn't love that!?


ok...i like this guy named Jose, and i don't know wether or not he likes me. His best friend (also my best friend) says that he doesn't, but he acts like he does. He seems more embarassed around me, and he likes to mess around with me, and he only does it to me. How do I make sure that he likes me or doesn't without embarassing myself in front of him? (link)
most people think that best friends tell each other everything, but they don't.
when you are alone, and he is kissing you, stop him and ask if he likes you.




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