Member Since: May 27, 2006
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Last Update: May 27, 2006
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Ok. I am a shy person when i am in a crowd. Does anyone some excersizes to help that. Some people im comfortable with. Fives (link)
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Well, you dont need to tell ME your'e shy, just look at the length of your question!, jk dude. :). What kind of people are you comfortable with? Obviously thats where you should start. You wouldn't hang out with those you AREN'T comfortable with right? So start with that, then move on up. It'll take time, you're trying to change you entire personality here! Be yourself though, maybe you were "meant" to be shy? good luck dude! no worries!
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I dont know wahts wrong with me. I have been getting very depressed latley. Like it just bounces around, one second im happy then further through the school say i get really really depressed. After school I just come home and go right to sleep. I feel like people just dont care about me and I dont wanna wake up. I really get depressed during school when I think how I have hardly any guy friends and like mostly girl friends. It pisses me off and I dont know why.I pretty much do more things with girls than boys and it makes me depresseed. I want guy friends but the guys in my school are ass holes most of the time. But I dont know, i just get so depressed taht i wanna sleep and never wake up. I start to feel like no one in the world really understands how I for nor do they care.
What should i do??
P.S. by the way im a boy
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Hi there! I have your exact same "problem". Here's what I decided to do: Take your life by the horns. Say to yourself "I don't care what people think about me, I'll be friends with whoever I want, if I don't have alot of guy friends then I'll try as hard as I can to get some even if by the end I still don't have very many.
And try not to sleep so much, I have that same problem. Yes it feels good to not have to worry about anything, and might relive a ton of stress, but you have depression, (I do to :) ), but go for a bike ride or sit on your porch or just do something else constructive.
You can't make guys be your friends. I've decided to play it safe: There are still some guys out there who will end up being your friend eventually. Maybe you've never meet them before, but through time and coincidence, you'll meet up with them and you'll have the time of your life with them. Until then, don't worry about a thing, which doesn't mean you need to be a jerk to everyone and all, but just be happy, knowing that you'll have better best friends than ANY other guy at your school. Good Luck Dude!
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theres this kid in school whos "somewhat" popular becuz hes really good looking. I want to become friends with him but i dont want to just go up to him and say "hi i want to be your friend"..how weird is that..what should i do?? (link)
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hey dude. might be a little late, but oh well. I have your same problem, X 5!! I'm a very friendly person, and there's like 10 other people in school who I know I could be best friends with if I could just hang out with them, but it seems impossible since you've never spoken one word to them, right? So try just that, say just 1 word, like "hey" "whatsup" , whatever. There are perverts out there who say "Who's that sick person looking at me, saying Hi?", but just try doing that, pretty soon 1 word changes to 2, and so on. good luck dude.
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