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I really dont know
I dont know wahts wrong with me. I have been getting very depressed latley. Like it just bounces around, one second im happy then further through the school say i get really really depressed. After school I just come home and go right to sleep. I feel like people just dont care about me and I dont wanna wake up. I really get depressed during school when I think how I have hardly any guy friends and like mostly girl friends. It pisses me off and I dont know why.I pretty much do more things with girls than boys and it makes me depresseed. I want guy friends but the guys in my school are ass holes most of the time. But I dont know, i just get so depressed taht i wanna sleep and never wake up. I start to feel like no one in the world really understands how I for nor do they care.
What should i do??
P.S. by the way im a boy
Thanks
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Hi there! I have your exact same "problem". Here's what I decided to do: Take your life by the horns. Say to yourself "I don't care what people think about me, I'll be friends with whoever I want, if I don't have alot of guy friends then I'll try as hard as I can to get some even if by the end I still don't have very many.
And try not to sleep so much, I have that same problem. Yes it feels good to not have to worry about anything, and might relive a ton of stress, but you have depression, (I do to :) ), but go for a bike ride or sit on your porch or just do something else constructive.
You can't make guys be your friends. I've decided to play it safe: There are still some guys out there who will end up being your friend eventually. Maybe you've never meet them before, but through time and coincidence, you'll meet up with them and you'll have the time of your life with them. Until then, don't worry about a thing, which doesn't mean you need to be a jerk to everyone and all, but just be happy, knowing that you'll have better best friends than ANY other guy at your school. Good Luck Dude!
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dude..im a guy too. and i know how it feels to have only girl friends. i dont get the depressed but i also hang out with guys sometimes but at school all the guys are cocky mother fuckers but this is what i think u should do...i dont know how things worjk ehere ur from but where im from theres a bunch of small private schools and kids hang out with each other from all diff. schools and its alot funner and thats what i do so try to hang out with guys from other schools.. sry if it doesnt work
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ok,this kinda sounds like deprsssion,it's called manic depression and it can be treated by a doctor,I would consider consulting a doctor and make sure that's what it is,and even though you feel like no one cares,plenty of people do,you may even have friends that care but you just don't know it,and your parents care and so does God,I hope everything works out for you,
Jasmine,
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Hey! It sounds like you are really down. I know what that feels like because I have the same problems. I remember when I was in high school too and it really sucked. Kids are so mean to each other.
Sleeping all the time and feeling worthless is a big sign of depression but if you are switching to depression and feelings of hoplessness and then full of energy and elation that could be a sign of bi polar disorder. I don't know how close you are with your parents from what I hear no alot of parents are very good listeners these days, but if you are able to talk to them you could maybe explain how you are feeling and see what they can do to help you with this.
Have you talked to any of your girl friends about this? What bothers you so much about having only friends who are girls? Are you just feeling stuck in that category now at school so that no guys want to hung out with you because they think you only want to be friends with girls?
When you are low and not feeling very self confident it is hard to make friends, people pick up on that vulnerable feeling when they are around you too unfortunately and I know teenagers can be really mean.
I guess this is all I can say for now, if you have any other questions let me know if I could I would give you a big hug...just know that someone cares about you out there..
A.
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Hey,
I'm sorry that you are feeling this way...I know what it feels like only I am a girl.
It sounds to me like you may be suffering from teenage depressing...ugh I know..
So my advice would be to either ask your parents to take you to see someone, or go to your school councelor for some help. I know you probably don't want to do it, but trust me...it will help so much!
Now, about school most of the guys I know would love to have more girls that are friends than guys. But then again I can see why you would want guy friends. But I know that in teenage years (I am assuming you are a teenager) guys tend to be jerks. So really even if you were their friend, would it really be worth it to be associated with them? Just think of it that way. And just hang out with the people that make you happy.
I have been through enough therapy to know that sleeping is completely unhealthy. So coming home and going right to bed is not a healthy thing to do. What do you like to do? Think about that, and try to do just what makes you happy...
Hun, I hope you overcome this struggle...just stick in there...
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