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Lesbian Or NOtt..?


Question Posted Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:33 pm

Hey Y'all!! :]]

I'm a girl and sometimes I get turned on by other girls. Does this make me a lesbian?? I dont want to have a relationship with them though. And I get crushes on guys, not girls. What do ya think?

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doombaby answered Wednesday December 27 2006, 3:37 am:
I was exactly that way and I guess I was kinda confused because i didnt have a boyfriend for like 5 years and i was always turned on by girls but i got those crushes on guys but then i got a boyfriend and i realized I'm straight haha.

Hope it helped :]

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rawrimarobotxx answered Wednesday December 27 2006, 3:21 am:
you could just be at an age where like, you are confused and kind of exploring how you feel. you might be a lesbian, you might be bisexual, you might be straight. that's for you to figure out. if you just get turned on by girls and don't actually have feelings for them, you're most likely not a lesbian, you're just turned on by other girls, which is completely understandable.

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ZizMe answered Wednesday December 27 2006, 12:14 am:
dear lesbian or not,
it's normal for girls to experience times where they like other girls physically. it doesn't happen to all, but it's not abnormal. no sweetie, you aren't a lesbian, unless it doesn't go away, and you are turned-off by guys.hope this helps some. take care
*Z*

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ductape_n_roses answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:54 pm:
It doesn't make you lesbian. You're probably a teenager, yes? It's your hormons acting up and you just want to explor all possiblities. So I wouldn't be going aorund saying "OMG IM LEZ/BI"

Just chill. By thinking "Am I lez" you're making believe that you you're turned on by girls whenin reality you don't. If you don't wanna go out with girls..well that's a key factor in determining if you're lez/bi or not.

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snickerzz11 answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:52 pm:
This doesn't make you a lesbian. It's normal to be curious about others, and to experiment with your sexuality. Also, if you don't want to actually do something with other girls, and you would rather go out with boys, then I don't think you are a lesbian. Hope I helped =]

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AMYGWENDOLiNExO answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:47 pm:
Your born a lesbian. That`s just how it is.

There`s a lot of girls that get turned on by other girls, like with porn and stuff. A lot of girls have gone through exactly what you`re going through right now, although many wouldn`t admit to it. You`re not a lesbian, you probably just would like to experiment with girls, and that just makes you open with your sexuality. If you don`t want to have an actual girlfriend/girlfriend relationship with another chick, then you`re not a lesbian. And you`ll KNOW whether or not you are.

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sportychick13 answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:41 pm:
well if ya dont want to go out with them then i guess your not a lesbian. i mean if ya wanna make out with them then well.........just message me then we can talk more. i mean i dont wanna embarrass anyone.

Taylor

PS your not a lesbian though

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Heptune answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:40 pm:
Like most things, there is a continuum between pure straight and pure lesbian. You are probably bisexual.

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KatieKinns702 answered Tuesday December 26 2006, 11:38 pm:
This does not make you a lesbian. It is totally normal to be curious and want to experiment.
Making out with them and kissing them, etc.
Thats nothing f you dont want to date them its not concidered lesbian to me!
Hope I helped
best of luck
K@T!E

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