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Q: i saw your answer about that question somebody asked about being a lesbian and about making out with girls. i dont like girls like i do guys..i just wouldnt mind making out with one. so does that make me bi? i also look at girls butts when they walk and stuff. but my boyfriend a while ago said the human eye is just attracted to sexual parts or whatever. i also look at their boobs and i dont ever see other girls do that stuff. but i said something about some girls butt before and my friend was like...y were u looking at her butt? and it just made me feel weird. the thing is tho...the thought of eating a girl out or like just feeling her discusts me. but not making out n stuff
well i mean all girls inside want to make out with a girl whether they know it or not. they want to experiment and what you are feeling is right. Also i love the way how your boyfriend is supporting you. He is right. girls cant help to look at girls butts or boobs. i mean but if you want to eat a girl out or something then that would mean you are bi.Alos looking at girls butts and boobs is alos just a phase. soon enough you will no longer want to make out with a girls and you will not want to look at a girls butts or boobs. i had a friend that always looked at girls boobs and then she compared them to her own and i started to do that to. but there is nothing wrong with what u r doing. it is perfectly normal and dont feel weird about what your friends say. just tell them what i tell you. it is perfectly normal and deep down you know they do it to. EVERYONE DOES!!! so dont feel weird. it is normal.

~Taylor~

Q: in yr 6 there was this boy who apparantly used to like but i never knew, i didn't like him then but i do like him now.stupid i know, it's just that i wasn't into the whole dating and liking thing then. i'm in year 9 now and i'm a girl(of course)i like him now but i have no contact with him, we don't go to the same school but my aunt is a teacher at his school. the one person i do know that has contact with me has blocked me on messenger. i guess it's too late, i threw away my chance-how can i get contact with him?

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well whatever you do dont get youir aunt to contact him for you unless she is cool with the thing. i mean if shes not then request his info again on messenger. but if u feel comfortable giving you aunt your number to give to hiom hen go for it!

hope i helped~

Taylor

Q: Holy crap. I went to the doctor's yesterday, and they said I weigh 155 pounds! And I'm only 13 and like 5'4. I checked the BMI thingie and I thought before that I was like 130, but like.. woah. I'm like 1 point over normal so now im overweight! ahh! how can I get back in shape? I already do basketball on thursdays and saturdays. and aside from things in school thats pretty much it. how can i get back in shape?????????? i really do not want to get fat.. if im not already not! or real heavy (though i probably am.) im not into doing those things that stupid kids do like be anorexic or bulemic, so thats out of question. but like.. its winter. i cant exactly do all the things i can do in the summer. plus, i have like no backyard (forrest) and alot of homework on weekdays. i think its because i may eat too much. because sometimes i may eat because im bored. but its not like i'll eat chips, because my mom cooks alot of african foods that are good. we dont really go out much but sometimes i guess i eat too much of a good thing. which is why i also bite my nails. should i get gum? but whenever i get it i always finish it in like 1 day. because i kinda feel that i have to be chewing something sometimes.. and i dont want to eat food just because.. when im not really that hungry, or bite off my nails. i dont even notice when i bite them.. but then later i see my nails arent that great and i have bitten them.. but its randomly. any help here? i reaaaally dont wanna get obese in the future!!!! and im a girl.

p.s. thankyou thankyou for helping!!!!!!!!!!!!!
play soccer. i weighed 113 then i played soccer for 2 weeks and in two weeks i weighed 95.5 so play soccer i guarentee it will work (just dont be goalie)


Taylor

Q: Ok i've posted many questions concidering this guy i'm totally in love w/ who's home from college. Well last year when he was a senior (i- a freshman) we talked ALOT and hung out quite often and that's how i fell for him. Well one day his friends told my friends that he had a "thing" for me.. what is a "thing"? and if he had a "thing" then why doesn't he like me openely? I mean the whole letter i wrote to him and he didn't write i like or even kinda like you back so.. what gives?
if he has a thing for oyu then that means that he likes you and probably the reason why he didnt write back is because he was shy to tell you. i ama girl an i know from experience when a guy doesnt write back then that either means he doesnt like you or hes shy and since he has a "thing" for oyu then he is just shy. ask him out and the worst he can say is no. there are plenty of other fish in the ocean and if he says no, (just go fishin)

hope i helped
Taylor

Q: 15/f
there is a guy who i am going to the movies with tomarro. what i need to know is, without sitting in a his lap, what are a few ways you can end up makeing out with them, or going through second base... my boyfriend and i have both done things(with eatchother) before, but never in a movie theatre... so i am wondering what is a good way to make it as un-akward as possible?
can you guys please help me?
thank you
well he doesnt have to start makin out with you. you just need to move closer to him and kiss him. then he will start to cooaperate. if yall have done "stuff" with each other he shouldnt be scared to make out in a theater

Q: What is your opinion on black hair?do you think it ia boring and ugly?
if your hair is long then black hair is GREAT but if your hair is short then well just dont die your hair black. but if it is long dont even think twice

Q: why do guys think lesbian action is so hot? why do they get turned on when girls touch each other and stuff? yet im a girl and i think its gross when guys touch each other/makeout.. i dont get it
they think its so hot cuz their to chicken to do anything so they want to act all tough by sayin THATS SO HOT!!! when really they dont have a clue what their talkin about! :>)

Taylor

Q: Hey Y'all!! :]]

I'm a girl and sometimes I get turned on by other girls. Does this make me a lesbian?? I dont want to have a relationship with them though. And I get crushes on guys, not girls. What do ya think?
well if ya dont want to go out with them then i guess your not a lesbian. i mean if ya wanna make out with them then well.........just message me then we can talk more. i mean i dont wanna embarrass anyone.

Taylor

PS your not a lesbian though

Q: I really don't know where else to turn right now but here. Okay, I know that I really shouldn't cut myself, but It's addicting. The teachers, my parents, they can't help! They don't get it. My parents say 'Pray'. I am Christian, but what do you do when Faith isn't enough? My teachers tell me I just need to want to stop. HELLO! I've wanted to stop! I can't! Someone please, If you know how to get unaddicted to the pain, please help me!
i agree with sydnie. hang with your friends, play a sport, go to the gym, do something else to get your mind off of cuttin yourself, but remember dont give up! good luck!

Q: f/16.. ok i have stretch marks on my upper arms and on my sides.. why? i mean i used to lift weights and then i stopped.. ok that doesn't make sense i guess im just wondering why i have them and how to get rid of them. ahh!
you cant get rid of them unless you get surgery which DONT at a young age. i wouldnt at all. my sister has strecth marks on her upper arm and it is ok with her. she has learned to accept it and just ignore it. now her friends and her family have accepted it to and she is not ashamed to show it. you should accept it to. there is nothing you can do so just accept it. It reallys is not that big of deal

Q: F/16

I've been in and out of the hospital since October and I've spent the past week and a 1/2 in the hospital, so I haven't seen my boyfriend very much. We were both invited to our friend's new years eve party and I might be home by then to go. The problem is my mom doesnt think its a good idea for me to go to someone elses house when I just got home from the hospital...

So my mom was like why can't BJ[my boyfriend] just come over to our house? so I asked him and he got all mad at me and was like "no I really want to go to this party, I didnt go last year" and he is making me feel like crap...

So should I just keep asking my mom and see how I feel on that day or just suck it up and stay home alone?

Thanks
YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A JERK!!! if he would rather go to some party than see you after you have been in the hospital for so long then what kind of person is he. if anyone should be mad it should be you! not him.

Q: long story short i use chewing tobacco and my gums are receeding and i need to find a product to help cure this. does anyone know of a product i could buy from likea cvs or walgreens or sumthing like that, also is there anything else i can to to help my gums grow back
well i am sorry but you should have never started in the first place! but since you have........STOP!!!! if you keep chewing then you will get worse and you could get gum cancer mouth cancer! everything! stop chewing and see a dentist or a doctor

Q: Is there any way to make your boobs look bigger? I know, awkward lol, but i'd love to know....
well buy them "cups" that go inside the bra but whatever you do DONT STUFF YOUR BRA! you might think that it looks normal but trust me i have seen girls that do that. (i mean i didnt see them stuff it) and anyways it looks tacky and unnatural.

Q: this kid called me pretty & called me twice today & said how he missed me, we dated a couple months ago

does he like me again?
OF COURSE!!! he is crawling back to you. if he starts talkin to you after you break up either he wants to go back out with you or he wants to be REALLY REALLY REALLY good friends

Q: "Ok please no funny answers and I want to know if Keisha is overreacting. Today at work Keisha was down on her hands and knees rearranging the cabinets in the work area and Keishas butt (rear end/booty) was sticking up in the air. Ginny (a coworker) passed by and said; Gee your butt looks big; This upset Keisha so she went over and asked; Ginny do you really think my butt is big; and Ginny replied (smiling the whole time); Well it must been the angle because you look fine standing up. I was joking.; Keisha said; But do you think my butt is big; Ginny replied; No; But this still bothered Keisha, however, Keisha didnt say anything and about a half hour later Ginny asked Keisha if she was ok and Keisha said; well it still bothers me; Keisha said; If your butt was big I wouldnt joke around like that. One never says something like that to someone who has a big butt; Keisha agreed and walked away. Throughout the day Ginny kept telling Keisha she was joking; However, about two hours later Ginny said to Keisha; I was joking; you have to gain; I was joking; MY QUESTION: DO YOU THINK KEISHA IS OVERREACTING; AND (2) WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THE ENTIRE CONVERSATION (0THER THAN SAYING IT IS SILLY) (KEEP IN MIND LAST WEEK ANOTHER COWORKER SAID TO KEISHA YOU ARE SO SKINNY DONT YOU EAT)"
i think that keisha is TOTALLY overreacting! i mean first of all be thankful for oyur body and if you dont like it then try to change it instead of asking someone else their opinion. also i think that the co worker that said you are so skinny dont you eat was sayin that just for a joke. but also i mean i think that the conversation over all is a real........conversation starter. tell that at a party and i guarentee you everyone will have some fun with it. i mean just make sure keisha isnt there. also to make keisha feel better about it get her to laugh with you. also i mean dont take this the wrong way cuz i am not no lesbo or anything but guys always say they are attracted to big butts anyways

Q: Right on my lipline there is a realy small pimple sort of like a bump. You can't really notice it though. It is not in the corner of my lipline nor the middle but closer to the middle. I get it from time to time and i don't know what it is. I sometimes start to freak out and think its herpes. What can it be?
well i would think it is a fever blister but just to be sure go to the doctor and get it checked out. better safe then sorry

Q: i really got into guitars this year. i've been meaning to learn more about them, but i haven't really gotten a chance to start. but it's gonna be one of my new year's resolution to start learning about them and stuff. i was wondering if you know any cool sites that talks about guitars, like the different kinds and brands and all those good stuff. mostly anything about guitars are appreciated.

thanks!
well they just made guitar tabs online illegal unless they are on the bands site. but go to ask.com and ask the question "how do you play a guitar" then check out your results. i did that in skateboarding and it is going good for me

Q: I'm 14/f and I'm usually very "in-style" and girly-- not sporty. I easily get cold. I am also outside a lot, but i absolutely hate hoodies and North Faces unless im just at school or something. Does anyone know a winter coat that looks lightweight, very warm, and not sporty at all? I prefer under $50 but I will go up to $75 if it's excellent quality.
yeah i agree with jane. american eagle is great but aeropastle is the BEST i get my jackets there all the time so go there

Q: I just got a Steelers jersey for Christmas. Unfortunately their last game is on this Sunday coming. I can still wear the jersey right? Like to school and stuff even though their season is over? I know a lot of you will say, "who cares what you wear?" But, I just want to make sure that other people are doing it too. Because, Steelers aren't that big where I live.

Thanks! =]
over here where i live people dont wear jerseys at all that much but my opinion anyways is that YEAH WEAR IT!!!! who cares what other people think. i mean yeah we want to look good in frint of our crush but you have to be yourself if you are a fan of the steelers then show it and dont be afraid to! show your personality by wearin things that express you!

Q: I used to be so outgoing, I was friends with everyone and I talked to anyone. But latley, I've noticed my list of friends has shrunk, I spend more time at home, and I'm becoming shyer and shyer. I worry when we get new nine week classes, because I'm afraid I won't get any classes with my friends when I used to be happy with whoever I got. How do I get the old me back?
you have to develope your old self back slowly over time that is the only way to do it. if you get a class with someone that you do not know go up to them one day and say hello or something. if you get a class with your friends then talk to them to but dont be held down to a certain group of people. you can have friends but you should be friends with everyone. of course you can be nice to someone and not be BEST friends with them. so be nice to everyone (but of course there will always be that special friend that is always there for you) my opinion is that there is only one friend that is truly your (best) friend but until you find that ONE then make friends with everyone, then you'll find your special friend

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