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New years eve
F/16
I've been in and out of the hospital since October and I've spent the past week and a 1/2 in the hospital, so I haven't seen my boyfriend very much. We were both invited to our friend's new years eve party and I might be home by then to go. The problem is my mom doesnt think its a good idea for me to go to someone elses house when I just got home from the hospital...
So my mom was like why can't BJ[my boyfriend] just come over to our house? so I asked him and he got all mad at me and was like "no I really want to go to this party, I didnt go last year" and he is making me feel like crap...
So should I just keep asking my mom and see how I feel on that day or just suck it up and stay home alone?
Thanks
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if your boyfriend really cared that much he woukd come by and at least spend some of new years with you when you get out of the hospital, nmaybe its time for you to move on even if you do feel up to going to the party find some one who is more considerate and understands you and go to the party with them or have them over for new years, even if it is just a friend.
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I would wait and see how you feel.
You might also try working out a compromise with your boyfriend, like having him over for dinner or to watch a movie before he heads out to the party. I really don't think he is being a jerk for wanting to go, but don't you feel guilty just because you can't. The way I see it: if you aren't well enough to go, then you probably shouldn't stay up all night anyways, you should hit the hay and get some sleep.
If you do end up staying home, why not make a nice night of it for you and your mom? Rent some chick flicks and enjoy eachother's company. After you being in the hospital you both could probably use some chill time.
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YOUR BOYFRIEND IS A JERK!!! if he would rather go to some party than see you after you have been in the hospital for so long then what kind of person is he. if anyone should be mad it should be you! not him.
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First of all, he is ditching you for a party?! i think you need 2 dump some1 first. If he cared about you this party wouldn't be a bigger priority. I think if you want 2 stay at home then do so. Maybe if u r better, then go. if u r not well, then stay at home, eat snacks, & maybe hang out with your mom. i know y4 mom may not b the party, but she may have cool things to say.
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When trying to persuade someone, you need to think of all the reasons the other person could use to argue.
ex.) "You won't be well enough"
Your reply should be something like: "I'll take it easy and rest up until the big day, and then can we see how I feel then?
If she says no, you need to find out why and you can contact me.
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