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why do guys think lesbian action is so hot? why do they get turned on when girls touch each other and stuff? yet im a girl and i think its gross when guys touch each other/makeout.. i dont get it
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guys minds are so fucked, it's too complicating.
With guys, two girls kissing and touching leads them to think they can get in on it, and why have one girl when you can have two?They think rather than just them and their girl, they will have a threesome.
and it depends on the guy, too. I know I think it's hot when guys kiss, and sometimes guys think it's gross when two girls kiss.
not every guy (beleive it or not) is the same.
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There are many reasons, some of which are universally true, and some of which depend on the guy:
1: MORE IS BETTER
Simple math - if one girl is good, two is better. This one definitely falls under the "universally true" banner.
2: ACTION WITHOUT MEN
The problem with male/female erotic imagery for many straight guys is that the men get in the way; we don't particularly want to see them! If it's a women-only event, that problem is eliminated.
3: WOMEN KNOW WHAT WOMEN WANT
Men sometimes imagine (and perhaps with some justification) that women can satisfy each other sexually far above and beyond what we poor males are capable of - and that being the case, lesbian women enjoy sex more than their straight counterparts. For most men, there is nothing more exciting than a woman who enjoys sex. Therefore, lesbians are exciting. This theory is in direct contradiction to...
4: THEY JUST NEED A MAN
A man sees two women getting it on, getting hot, and knows that if they only knew what a man felt like, they'd be twice as hot for him. I should mention that this is, of course, only true in Fantasyland; in real life, most of us are smart enough to know that it doesn't work that way.
5: THE TEASE
Like it or not, when it comes to lesbian sex, a man can never really participate - he can only watch. By definition, if he gets involved, it's hetero. And therein lies the ultimate tease.
6: FORBIDDEN PLEASURES
Any sex act that society considers deviant or taboo becomes that much more exciting.
As for the difference with men and women, insofar as why men like to see women getting it on but the reverse usually isn't true... I can only repeat what I've heard. Studies have shown that many straight women ALSO get aroused by images of lesbians. The suggested reason for this is that when men view an erotic image, they imagine themselves JOINING the person or people in the scene. Women, however, tend to IDENTIFY with one of the people in the scene. Therefore, men see two women getting it on, and think about joining them; women see it, and think about becoming one of them - and since they see a woman who is excited, it makes them feel the same way. On the other hand, if a woman sees two men in sexual contact, there is no one she can identify with, and so it doesn't work for her.
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it's basically just an opinion.. i was just talking to my bf about this today. he said it's because guys don't really like watching another guy like, making out with a girl, because i guess it's weird. but two girls together, which he likes girls, and not guys, i guess turns most guys on. hahah. as for girls, i have no idea why two guys like going at it doesn't turn a majority of us on, because i know it doesn't turn me on. haha.
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Okay, I asked my guy friend since I cant really answer that. Sorry if its hard to understand, hes really smart :D
"guys are stimulated by most types of sexual action. To see two girls going at it will conjour up preminitions of a menage a trois. Some guys do not like to see a fellow dude in a video and would rather opt for two beautiful women."
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Some guys think lesbian action is hot, and some others don`t. It`s a personal opinion that most people keep to themselves. You think it`s gross, and then there`s girls like me who think it`s hot when guys have sex. =D ♥
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i think its a matter of opinion i personally dont care either way. but i have known other females to get turned on when to guy are touching eachother. i think because for some people who are straight its like watching porno a straight guy isnt attract to another male so watching to female that hes attracted to doing stuff gives him more of a sexual rush then watch a guy and a girl. same thing with some straight women. not everyone feels this way but some do. oh well every ones diffrent.
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they think its so hot cuz their to chicken to do anything so they want to act all tough by sayin THATS SO HOT!!! when really they dont have a clue what their talkin about! :>)
Taylor
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They're guys. They just do because they see one hot girl then another one and better yet they're making out with each other..haha.
You may not be into the whole same gender sexual activity thing so don't worry.
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