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my father abuses me what should i do
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Go to the police. If your talking about sexual abuse, that's both wrong and gross.So call the police so they can put him away.
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i have a friend that her dad abuses her sexually. she told a teacher out at the school. ever since she has moved in with her grandparents her dad hasnt touched her. all just becouse she told somebody. so my advice is tel a responsible adult. i.e. youth pastor, teacher, guidance counceler
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TELL SOME ONE!!! (other than us)
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you slap him and say dont do that shit to m,e and then tell ur mom and leave.
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your father abuses you sexually wow my heart goes out to you honey really what you should do is go to somebody you could trust or better yet go to the cops MAKE HIM STOP PLEASE SEEK HELP ASAP. and dont worry about how he feels because if he's doing it to you he probley doesnt care at all and beleive me it is easiyer to give than take advice but this is advice you nee to take good luck hope i helped please rate me if you can good luck rember get help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i think u should tell someone that would really help you. when your not getting abused by your dad you can go to your friends or relatives house and tell them what your dad is doing to you. they probably tell the cops and he would get locked up and you won't get abused again. then they will sort things out and they will find oyu a home to live in. thanks for writing to me. hoped i helped.
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tell someone! dont just sit here on the computer and let it happen. go to the police and get help! tell your mother.
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Tell somebody you trust, like your mom, siblings,the councelor at your school,etc. You have to tell somebody! Good Luck and may God bless you.
*x0oLoViN'iTo0x*
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tell someone... GEt hElP!
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What way does he abuse you(just wondering since it is under sex) Well, even if you love your father, you should call the abuse hotline, or talk to an adult about it. That way, they can help your dad. Abuse is almost like a mental illness, but it can be cured.
~oxkatekaylaxo
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common sense.....TELL THE POLICE!!! sexual abuse is illegal. if you don't want to go to the police, tell some one who wil do it for you.
~~Chelsey~~
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you should definitely get help. ik hes your dad and u dont want to but this is wrong and u cant let him to continue this behavior
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whoa, girl this isnt brain surgery REPORT HIM!!! i dont care how you do it, just DO IT!! tracher..counseler.. *POLICE*..mom..relative..neighbor..ANYONE just tell someone..if you allow him to keep doing this he will take it to serious measures..where he might rape you (if he haddent already) and if he does it may scar you for life...just tell someone p.s add me to your friends list and let me know how it goes!! good luck and never feel like your alone because there are sooo many girls/boys out there that are abused everyday..and if you tell someone your reducing the population of abused kids! xOx
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Call 911 and tell them the problem
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Tell someone! Like your teacer would be good. Or even the police if it's really bad.
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You should put a question mark on the end of this question.
Also, you could contact the police
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U're father sexually abuses you? My cousin sexually harassed me. he continually did this to me and I did absolutly nothing about it. If you have a mother tell her. Then call the police. This needs to be reported. I DO NOT CARE IF HE IS YOUR FATHER! I told my parents about my cousin, he is now in jail. Do as I say because this is the same exact think I told my best friend(she has the same exact problem). Hope I helped! PUT ME ON U'RE FRIENDS LIST AND TELL ME IF IT WORKS!
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maybe you should tell your guidence councelor at school they'll help you... get someone sent to your house. or next time it happens call the police...
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Call the cops!!!!!! And get this evil bastard away from you!!
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well...this isnt much of a hard ne. just tell your mom. or the police either way your dad will be in trouble and youll get separated and live with your mom and your dad will get a restraining order and go to jail
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tell somebody!!!!!!!
call a hotline or 911 anything just tell a responsible adult
hope i helped!
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This sounds like something that would be really hard.... i think you need to tell someone that you trust about it...someone that will try to help. You should tell people like a school counselor, or a family member or a neighbor, or even a really good friend. No one has the right to do that to you and you need to end it as soon as you can.
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Call the police..
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tell someone you mom or a teacher someone who can help you really fast!
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call the police, tell an adult
xoxo
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Definatly tell the police! If you don't, he will probably continue to abuse you! He has NO right to abuse you in any way, shape or form! If you can't tell the police, tell someone that you trust. Like your mother, sister, brother, uncle, aunt, a friend's parent, teacher, just tell someone!
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Tell the police! you should stay with your dad you need proper care away from your dad.
luv roxie
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Call the cops.
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Tell someone. If you dont it will keep going on. Tell a counslor,mom,teacher someone. x0
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My suggestion to you would be to tell a school counselor. I went through a similair situation but only it was my brothers best friend and I was seven. I didn't tell anyone until I was in middle school and I regret it. Don't feel alone in this situation and don't be afraid to tell the truth. I did it too late and he never got caught and I'll never know if he did it to another little girl and I'll never be able to live with myself because of it. Just think of it happening to someone else. Your counselor should be very supportive of you in this situation and could call your mother into the school and tell her for you if it's too hard for you. I truly hope this helps you and you can have the strength to talk about it to someone. You didn't do ANYTHING wrong, please remember that!! If you have any other questions or need support you can email me at flutterbyme@msn.com!
~ Amanda
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You have to tell someone hun and don't be afraid to do so. It's a huge step to let something like this out. So once you do tell someone, a lot of weight will be lifted. You'll feel a lot better just knowing someone knows and they're going to be there for you. Talk to someone you trust. A best friend, teacher, your mom, grand parents, aunts or uncles, cousins, etc. The sooner you tell someone, the sooner you'll be able to put a stop to this.
♥ Krissy
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Im sure you want out from this abuse because nobody deserves it..the first step to getting away from this is talking to someone. Think of who will support you most..your mom? a teacher? your best friends parents? a school conselor? there are many options..tell them and i know they will take it seriously and help you out.
You could go live with a relative, friend, etc..and you can start to move foward with your life. Just remember..nothing can be done until you talk to someone first..dont be ashamed or afraid..people are out there to help you.
-melissa-
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911 NOW dont wait until it feels right just do it. You will be much better afterwards.
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Tell whatever adult you can find that will get you out of the situation. Someone who will not go to your dad. Maybe a teacher at school that you like. If all else fails call social services in your area. If you tell a teacher they will do it for you. Good luck.
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tell ur mother or someone!!! A.S.A.P.!!!
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