OK, well im 14 and still havent had a b/f yet. Is there like smething wrong with mme? Im affraid I wont have a b/f the whole 4 years of highschool. Thanks!
Dakmor answered Saturday October 22 2005, 2:39 pm: Ah come on, now don't degrade yourself like that! Some people aren't even ALLOWED to date until they're like 15! Trust me, you're not odd! I'm only 13, but I've never had a date, and neither have any of my friends, and it doesn't look like we're gonna get a girl for a looooong time. Believe me, someone will come eventually. Just don't try to find them. Pretend they don't exist. You'll know when the time is right. [ Dakmor's advice column | Ask Dakmor A Question ]
lazy_one answered Saturday October 22 2005, 12:41 pm: i'm 14, too. i also don't have a b/f. don't worry about it. do you hang out with guys? if you do, one of them might like you and you don't know it. are there any guys you like? if so, are you friends or do you admire him from across the room? it all depends. you may get a b/f soon. trust me, you won't go all through high school without one.
hope i helped [ lazy_one's advice column | Ask lazy_one A Question ]
redderthentomatoes answered Saturday October 22 2005, 12:24 pm: Theres nothing wrong with you, but if you want a boyfriend your probably not giving off the right signals. Do you hang out in a group of all girls? Because i know for a fact its hard to get a boyfriend at all if you dont hang out with any guys... also if you have a certain guy[s] in mind, you have to look interested, not just be interested. You have to be open. Guys look for clues that girls really like them before they ask them out (to minimize chances of rejection). So, if your shy then you probably wont pick up any guys like that! Just be wild, flirty, open, and ultimately yourself. And hey, just for the record, you dont NEED a boyfriend. If your single, and your happy, then just enjoy it. You shouldnt get caught up in the dating as a fad thing, only go out with someone because you are geniunly interested in him... [ redderthentomatoes's advice column | Ask redderthentomatoes A Question ]
sshelbyy answered Saturday October 22 2005, 12:14 pm: ahh no theres nothing wrong with youu.
i know ALOT of people who are even OLDER thann you and havent had boyfriends. dont worryy babe it'll happenn soonn. hehe.
frenchfries21 answered Saturday October 22 2005, 11:20 am: no, theres nothing wrong with you. theres plenty of people who are older than you and havent had a boyfriend. it doesnt mean theres anything wrong with you. actually, in a way your better off than people with boyfriends because boys are actually just a big waste of time because you can be with them for awile, and then they'll probably break your heart. or you'll get tired of them and dump them. the later in life you have a boyfriend, the better. unfortunatly, its to late for some of us. [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
sarraleew answered Saturday October 22 2005, 11:19 am: being 14 and never having a boyfriend is no big deal. i didn'y start dating until i was 14 and i have friends my age who still haven't had a boyfriend either. it's doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you. there probable means that there is something wrong with the guys at your school for not asking you out.lol [ sarraleew's advice column | Ask sarraleew A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday October 22 2005, 10:00 am: nope there absolutely, positively, NOTHING wrong with you. here's the deal: most relationships before 14 aren't real. its a bunch of playing around seeing what you can get regardless of compatibility. just wait and see...you don't need a bf! keep your head up! <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
HectorJr answered Saturday October 22 2005, 9:30 am: No there is nothing wrong with you. Nobody said that because you are in high school you have to date somebody, especially not at 14. Don't let any kind of pressure let you think or act that way. Really...if you are looking for somebody just for the sake of having a relationship, then chances are things won't turn out as planned and either/both of you will get hurt. Is that what you really want? Not having a boyfriend/girlfriend is never a negative thing. You have more time for yourself, don't have to worry about someone else other than you, and are not limited by who you can and can't hang out with.
So yeah don't look around so much for a relationship right now, just friendships - because thats how a relationship starts out in the first place. Hope that helped and good luck. [ HectorJr's advice column | Ask HectorJr A Question ]
DaNcE_In_ThE_RaIn answered Saturday October 22 2005, 9:00 am: Dont worry.I mean, look at the whole root of dating...marraige.So maybe you should hold off dating until youre ready to konw how to look for who youre going to marry.And some people Dont date until theyre 16 so..I hope i helped
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