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we're finally going to meet
Hey everyone. Sorry this is a tad long.
I'm in a bit of a dilemma as you could call it. Firstly, before you jump to judgment, I have been speaking to this guy for a very long time. online 3 years to be exact. We've done countless phone calls, pictures, web cams, everything. Our parents have even spoke on the phone.
Anyway.. he lives in the US and I'm in Australia. We've been talking about meeting for ages, and it's finally happening. He's buying the tickets this tuesday. Thing is I'm feeling totally weird about it. He'll be staying here around 3 weeks (my mum okayed it suprisingly enough, but she took some convincing) We've wanted to meet for so long because we really feel deeply for each other, but now it's here I can't help but have second thoughts. He's 20 and I'm 17 btw, and he's a really religious guy so we're not going to get "up to anything" =P He's coming here to genuinely spend time with me. I keep thinking that we're gonna hate each other or something. =/
Has anyone met anyone off the internet before? Did it go good or not? am I just nervous or is there something seriously wrong here?
Thanks for your help.
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I've met plenty of people before. It's only as crazy as you make it. Keep your feet on the ground and be realistic.
And more importantly, just enjoy your time with him.
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I think you are just nervous. You should definatley relax about it instead of thinking about all the 'what if' situations. Whats it been, three years? If you've still been close for that long, then chances are that there wouldn't be a reason for either of you hating the other. It will turn out well if you have your mind set that it will. If you expect something to go wrong, then it probably will.
You're out to finally meet and have a good time...so go and do that! He's definatley more nervous than you. If you establish more confidence when he arrives, and put on a positive attitude and really just go with the flow, then that will definatley help the both of you out feel less nervous and a lot more comfortable. Really, if something wrong was going to happen between you, it would have already happend, right? Well I hope everything goes well and best of luck.
P.S. - Good things come to those who wait.
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