Well, I've just recently gotten out of a relationship with a guy I really cared about, and another one of my exboyfriends is one of my best friends. I think I must be rebounding, but I keep flirting with my ex and I don't want to, because now we have such a good relationship and I don't want to jeopardize it, but I can't stop myself! I don't know what to do, because he'll flirt back (just as a joke, I think) so it confuses me even more! How do I stop flirting with him and stop thinking about him?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BlackRose18 answered Thursday May 12 2005, 1:09 pm: Maybe your flirting could be a sign that you still like him..dont completley throw away that feeling, some people dont know they are flirting when they really are so its hard..but then again you dont want to lead him on -- you should talk to him, tell him you dont wanna lose the bond you have, but then again you dont wanna make it more than it is -- I'm sure hell understand if you guys are good friends and were going out before -- Buit you never know you might wanna think about the "flirting" is it just harmless rebound? or is something there again? But dont let that over power your mind or you might get all caught up and start to worry...relax see what happenes im sure itll be for a good reason [ BlackRose18's advice column | Ask BlackRose18 A Question ]
Behind_Blue_Eyes answered Thursday May 12 2005, 12:44 am: Sometimes flirting can be all in fun just make sure he doesn't get the wrong idea about it. Maybe you aren't rebounding and you do really like it but you are still not ready for a relationship. Perhaps you could not be around him so much, that way it will lessen any chance of you flirting with him.
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