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ok theres this girl and I like her but i want to stop. see theres this guy and hes a big sweet talker guy, the guy that everyone loves no matter what. well i've liked this girl for a long time and I told her i liked her and she said she liked me to and then the sweet talker comes along and i get so pissed cause he cant stick to one girl. well it just breaks my heart whenever she ditches me for him and the girl and i are good friends and well i know i cant get over her by forcing myself and i dont know how to tell her this. can you help?
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you should just tell her the whole truth and how you feel..i know how you feel..everytime i talk to this guy i like, this other girl always comes in (and she's the girl all the guys love) and it pisses me off too
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tell her strait up that you still like her and get pissed wen the guy comes along and takes her away, but u want to get over her. if shes a good person and is understanding.....guess what....she will understand! us girls go through the same thing...you never know by telling her you could get a girlfriend or still be good friends with her!
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First thing is first. You have to realize that this girl really isn't worth you, your time, or your energy to have her ditching youi for someone else. That's what you have to realize. I know that won't change your mind about her, so on to the advice. I really think that you need to be especially sweet to her, open doors, pay for the occasional meal, etc. etc. Girls really take notice to these things and pay very close attention to the actions of guys. Next, you need to make sure you're there for her in any way that she needs you to be for when this other guy breaks her heart if he's the player that you say he is. It'll mean so much if you're there afterwards, and it'll strengthen your friendship if it ends up not turning into a relationship. Next, you should definitely tell her how you feel, about her as well as about the way she's been treating you. Don't let yourself be mistreated by anyone just because you have a crush or are even in love. If she wants to have out with the loser, and she doesn't take your feelings into consideration after you talk to her, then you should dump her. Seriously, if she can't treat you well, then there is no sense in having her as a friend. I hope this helped.
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well this is what i do, and its gonna sound a little crazy. look inside your head, and split up yourself into two parts, the part that likes her and the part taht doesnt. then imagine the part that doesnt like her attacking her with a knife. your other self will try to stop him but fail. it doesnt really make the feeling itself go away, but it does make it hurt less. and rememebr, shes ditching you so she cant like you all that much.
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Get over her! Think about someone else and other things that will help clear your head
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First thing is first. You have to realize that this girl really isn't worth you, your time, or your energy to have her ditching youi for someone else. That's what you have to realize. I know that won't change your mind about her, so on to the advice. I really think that you need to be especially sweet to her, open doors, pay for the occasional meal, etc. etc. Girls really take notice to these things and pay very close attention to the actions of guys. Next, you need to make sure you're there for her in any way that she needs you to be for when this other guy breaks her heart if he's the player that you say he is. It'll mean so much if you're there afterwards, and it'll strengthen your friendship if it ends up not turning into a relationship. Next, you should definitely tell her how you feel, about her as well as about the way she's been treating you. Don't let yourself be mistreated by anyone just because you have a crush or are even in love. If she wants to have out with the loser, and she doesn't take your feelings into consideration after you talk to her, then you should dump her. Seriously, if she can't treat you well, then there is no sense in having her as a friend. I hope this helped.
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Maybe your not ready to get over her just yet -- Everything happenes for a reason, your body could be telling you its not time that something could happen -- Shes gunna need you to be there as a firend sooner or later when she falls down -- but if your gut instinct is telling you that you dont wanna like her anymore then i have some suggestions:
Before you move on let all those feelings out, talk to someone you trust if you dont let it out itll stay with you forever....
Take it day by day, TRY and stay strong
Its not the end of the world and it is gunna hurt because she is your friend but just be thankful to have her in your life...things could change so keep your head up hun
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Just tell her how you feel about her again and what you feel like when shes ditches you then if everything works out ok ask her out. If she says no then there not much more you can do but be friends. Hope i helped! Love Nicole!!
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wow, that is quite a pickle. i know the feeling, for the longest time me and my best friend always liked the same time, but he liked her more, and hated me. anyways, just win her over, if she is a romantic, bring her flowers and chocolates.if she is sporty, take her to a football game! either that, or encourage the guy to ask her out, then catch him cheating and tell her, then be the nicest u can while she is hurt and make her see how positivly great u are! :)
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