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stupid guy friend
I recently asked the question about how my guy friend and his girl broke up and how I wanted to be there for him. Well he asked me to help, and today I tried to talk to him about it. I said do you and her now have an undertanding? he was like yea. I said so are you ok? and he goes it sucks but I'll live.. I have to go. Then leaves. What the hell? Im trying to help like he asked me to and then he leaves? Whats his problem? Should I leave him alone or say something?
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hez still apparently a little sore about the breakup. you shouldnt take anything like that offensivly because he probably didnt even realize what he did. if you want to be a good friend..be there when he needs someone to talk to, but dont pressure him. he'll open up to you when he's ready. but until them, just give him constant support.
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leave him alone until he askes for your help again. breakups are tough, and people like to keep it to themselves and be left alone. when hes ready to come out, hell ask for your help. for know, just give him a break, hes going through a really tough time.
MiiCHELLE..*
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Maybe hes not comfortable talking about it yet..hes probably still getting over the fact that he doesnt have his g/f anymore...im sure hell come around when he needs to talk and wants to vent..but if you see him down you can ask him if hes ok -- Other than that you might wanna leave it alone so he doesnt get upset thinking about it, or he doesnt egt mad that you keep asking him -- Time heals everything >.<
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He might have just been upset thats all and wanted to be alone. Just make sure your there for him when he needs you thats the main thing
luv shelly
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Even though he asked for help, he may need you there for support, not to talk about the problem, but just to be friends with him. Maybe he didn't want to talk about it, maybe he's not ready. Just be there for him and when he wants to talk about it, he'll tell you.
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I'd give it another chance. Could be that he had to be somewhere. Could be he didn't want to talk about it today. Either way, give it another chance. :)
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