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sorry its long.. but please tell me if im right or wrong
OK please tell me if I am wrong or not. This guy used to be my friend and now I hate him. He became obsessed with me but we NEVER talk anymore. He finds out what everything means in my info and talks to everyone about how hes in love with me. His voice annoys me, hes perverted, and theres just something about him I absolutely hate. Well my grandma died.. and in one of my classes I sit in the front of the room and sleep while all my friends go to the back and talk(including the guy). Today he told my best friend to not talk to me because i was upset and I WASNT! i sit infront of the room every day and now since my grandma died im upset? he doesnt know me.. i love my best friend he has no right to tell her not to talk to me. he doesnt know me and i cant stand him. Am i being wrong to be so angry? whats your opinion?
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this is a messed up individual, he is stalking you. deal with it accordingly. tell the principal.
-hitler
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Look, I understand your feelings towards him, but while reading this I noticed something...have you no respect whatsoever for the fact that this boy has feelings for you? Perverted or not, you have to acknowledge that and when you do, believe me, things will get better. If he comes on too strongly and talks about you, then go upto him and tell him [nicely] that you are not interested in a relationship with him, and tell him to please stop talking about you to others. Be respectful, and remember that you were once friends.
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um well it seems like he's stalking you if he knows all your info but I really don't think he shouldn't be telling other peple what you feel when he's not you. True if he really does love you he might show concern but considering you guys aren't even talking, he might not know how much you've changed.Tell me if this helps.
FOREVER!
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I dont think this guy is doing anything wrong. On the same token, I dont think you are either. You have a right to not like someone! However, I dont see how it was wrong for him to tell you best frien dyou were upset and not to talk to you. I think he was just showing that he cared. I dont think he meant it so literally. He wasnt trying to be rude or mean in saying it. I would just talk to him and ask him to leave you alone and to stay out of your business. He should respect that. If not, thats when you can get angry. Hope this helps!
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Doesn't seem like he said anything so wrong. He was showing concern. Since he used to be your friend I think you need to tell him to just leave you alone. I don't think you can fault him for being concerned though. :)
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