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Short versions of a verrrry confusing story:
this guy likes me so much. hes nice, soo sweet, easy to talk to, pretty cute and funny. but i keep comparing him to this guy i used to like. the guy that likes me now. he seems like the perfect guy, but always tells me about his feelings for me..i think its clingy and annoying. hes soo perfect but i just don't have feelings for him! i keep trying to stop comparing him and i think if i give it time, i might like him. but, i just don't see that happening. he likes me soo much and thinks i like him a lot too and thats my fault because i let him think that. but WHAT should i do! i'm not into talking about feelings and he is, its like hes obsesed w.me. should i break it off now or just wait?? PLEASE HELP!!!
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If you like him let it be....seeing that you say you dont like him tell him...anything short of that would just be being a total bitch and no one likes wants to be known for that...dont worry about his feelings either...better now then later ]
If you'Re not inteRested, then don't botheR leading him on - it'd be huRtful and unecessaRy, and that's unfaiR. ]
If you've been dating him and still don't have feelings for him then break up. No since letting him get even more attatched. :) ]
You should try hangin out with him more, might help you get used to him -- As for the feelings...just tell him your nto comfortable talking about it yet that you need some time...Compairing him to the guys you used to like could be a problem, but im sure if you work on that and try to see things out it could work, the only way to have a good relationship with someone even if its just being friends is to be HONEST good luck ]
dont like totally ditch him, but quit leading him on. if you dont stop soon, he'll probably end up getting hurt, and hating you. whenever he brings up his feelings, do your best to change the subject. this may sound evil, but if you flirt with other guys in front of him, he may get the message and stop. hope this helps!
MiiCHELLE..* ]
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