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Hey.........im depressed
Ok here goes, I am an advice giver and everything but I can't fix this problem. I go to a school where there is a whole bunch of guys. I have a major crush on one of them but every time I make a move on a guy I like, I get these kinds of remarks such as "You should jump off a bridge and save yourelf the embarassment of actually having a love life". Remarks like these are said to me everyday and somehow they have etched themselves into my head and they won't go away. Now it seems like the only way to get rid of them is to commit suicide. I have thought about it many times but I want help. Please answer back. I don't know how much more of these remarks I can stand.
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People who are like that are low-lifes without any reason to be alive. It's hard, but you should try to ignore them. Defend yourself and get your friends to defend you to. If your friends won't, find friends who will.
Now, onto a serious matter. If you are seriously considering suicide you should consult someone. A school counsellor, a family member, a doctor or another adult or just someone who can get you the help you need. Suicide is a serious matter and even the slightest mention of it should be taken serious.
When the matter has gotten to the point of suicide, the problem should be taken to a proffesional rather than a group of people online.
I don't want to write another 5 paragraph lecture on this like I normally do, because I'm sure you know most of this by now. Suicide is not the solution, it is not the way out. Suicide is the beginning of an even worse situation.
I wish you the best of luck with this situation and hope that you find the solutions that are so much better than suicide.
~MissKassie
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people can be soo rude sometimes dont worry those people just wanna make you feel bad because they're stupid lo-lifes .. honestly dont try anything because you will regret it .. whenever you feel low just think of the people who care about you and would hate to see you sad .. hope i helped Love MauramOo
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Do not hurt yourself. First and foremost, if you are seriously considering suicide, then you should talk to someone you trust. It doesn't have to be your parents or a teacher, but talk to someone. Suicide is not normal and depression does NOT have to be apart of your life.
And as for those guys, I wouldn't ignore them. To ignore them is to give them the idea that it's okay to berate people for no other reason than personal amusement, and that is NOT okay. If the guy you like doesn't have the cajones to stand up for you (or for anyone at all), then he doesn't seem like that great of a guy.
Be clever. Make quips. Defend yourself. If they insult you, insult them back. You don't have to put up with their shit, but you will as long as you don't make a stand.
Good luck.
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what do you need help with? how to kill yourself? really any advice i give you is gonna seem like its belittling your problems, but ill try anyway. kids are mean, thats jsut the way it is. i dont quite get who is tellin you to jump of a bridge, jsut random bitches, or the guy youre talking to. if its the guy, then you really need to find better guys to like. if its random bitches, then ignore them. they are probably jsut jelous and thats why they are making fun of you.
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Say something back -- People like that have low self esteem and need to egt off on seeing you feel bad...Suicide isnt the way, just and easy way out and think of how many people would miss you your family friends...Talk to someone if you keep holding it in it can lead to worse it will just bring you down even more and you dont need that no1 does...nto worth the pain tell your mom or someone at skool you can sit down and let everything out...just dont sit back and let it happen
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whoever is saying that crap is just retarded. if they have to put people down to make themselves feel good, they aren`t worth listening to. when you`re lonely and depressed.. look to God. you weren`t born to fit in. when you were born, God smiled. don`t kill yourself, that`s taking the easy way out.. and it will send you straight to hell. don`t be selfish. think of who all you would hurt if you killed yourself. find someone who is a Christian and just get to know them. i`m here if you need a friend.
x3 KaTiE LyNn
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If you wanted to be dead, you'd of killed yourself by now. You're also dumb for letting ingorant idiots get you. Wait till you're older. They'll be gone and you'll be fine.
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ok... those guys are evil and i think that maybe you should lay off on the guys for a while. and besides, how could you like a guy that miss treats you? i say forget about the guys, forget all the gay stupid stuff they've got to say to you. and wat ever you do dont commit suicide. i've thought about it alot in the past months too. but i'm still alive and i'm doin good. and if you dont wanna hear the remarks, dont listen to them, dont even aproach them. just live yur life. then you'll find a nice guy who'll love you and you will forget about all of those bastards. i hope you feel better.
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well whoever says bad comments are asses, dont worry about them. theres never a good enough reason to commit suicide, believe me, life is worth all the drawbacks, so put all of the shit behind you and look forward to the people who really care about you. just sit back and watch life happen, things will turn your way
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Ok, first of all, I've been down a similar path. I a couple years ago desperately wanted to end everything. I know it's tough, but yuo've gotta stick it out. You're better than these people making the remarks. If you kill yourself, they win. They beat you. Stay strong. About the crush, is he someone who you know, who you talk to, who you like to be around simply because of who he is? If he treats you well, then go for it, but be careful. I've been burned before too. You really have to stay strong for me, though, and talk to someone who can really help. I hated counseling, but I think that it probably did help. If you need someone just to talk to, my e-mail is ClarinetGirlALS@wmconnect.com and my IM is ClarinetGirlALS.
Keep strong, gorgeous! You'll pull through, and you'll end up successful, and all the jackasses making fun of you will work in McDonald's for the rest of their lives!
Lyss
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