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CityWalk
Well, my friend and i always try to plan going to citywalk, and every time SHE cancels it. I never canceled it. I'm not sure if she really has a reason to cancel it every time, or if she just doesnt want to go with me. If she didn't want to go with me I wish she would just tell me, and I would rather her do that then expect her to go there with me. I'm not sure if I should still try to plan it with her or what. I mean I hope it's just because she has a reasonable explanation. Because I don't think that i'm that bad of a friend, I don't do anything to be mean, and I like to have fun. If you know whats going on, or if you have a idea please help me. I'm totally confused.
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Just tell her from the start. I want to go on this walk. If you want to come okay, but don't back out at the last minute. It's ok if you don't want to go just say so.:)
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just ask her if she really doesnt want to go because you dont really care.
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Just because she keeps blowing you off doesn't mean that you are a bad person, or a bad friend. Don't blame yourself, it's not your fault that she's inconsiderate.
I suggest that the next time you invite her to Citywalk, invite someone else too, someone who won't bale on you...That way, if she cancels, you can tell her that's just fine, and you and your other friend can go and have fun without her. If I were you, I'd probably give her one more chance. But if she blew me off, I wouldn't invite her again. (Doesn't mean you can't still be friends.) Then, if she wants to hang out with you, she can call YOU.After all, her fingers aren't broken...
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I think that you should ask her why she always turns down your invite. We don't know why she always cancels it, so we can't really tell you what she's feeling. You can find that out from her though. Ask her what time would be best for her for the both of you to go to city walk. If she doesn't say a date and time then ask her what's going on, but not in a pushy way because you don't want to turn her off to not answering your questions. I hope I helped!
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