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i don't know what to do
ok well you see.. it all started about a month ago and i told me friend that i liked this kid.. and she told me that she liked my friend JJ that im kinda colse to.. anyway welll the kid i liked decided to shave his head and get his tounge pierced.. so i don't like him anymore.. but when i talk to my friend JJ i get the feeling that i like him and i don't know how to tell her.. and what if he would ask me out or somthin would i say yes or be a good friend and say no b/c my friend likes you and i don't want her to be mad at me... please help
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If he asks you out. say no. U can have a boyfriend AND HE CAN BREAK UP WITH You. But you friends will always love you. If you truly want to go out with him, tell your friend you like him, if she can't deal with it, find new friends
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this is a hard one, and yet a situation that comes up alot. it really is up to your end decision. do you want to be that loyal friend and not be happy? or do you want to be happy knowing your friend will be happy for you? think about it.
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ook you have to bring it up when you two are hanging out alone. and just say something like.."ugh remeber when i used to like (tongue pierced guy)?" & she'll be like yea..why? just be like he is soo ugly now!! or something..then be like... jj even looks better than him!! and see what she says and then be like jj is kind of hott i never really saw him like that...and then just be like i kind of like him now...or something...and if she flipps out on you..DONT go out with him--even if you like him/he likes you..if shes your REALLY good friend you wouldnt risk it all for a guy. But if shes like oh w/e and doesnt really care, she probably wouldnt mind too much if you went out with him.
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That has sooo happened to me before... i told my friend and she didn't get mad or anything, we just laughed about how hot he was after. hehe. but i don't know ur friend so i don't really know how she would handle it if you told her... I think you should try telling her calmly, not that i know her or anything, but most people would handle it pretty well. So i say go for it.
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I think if you like him that way, and he asks you out then you go out. I would talk to your friend and tell her you kind of like him too. Then, you need to make sure that there will be no hard feelings if he asks her out. She need's to agree to the same. I'm sure the one left out will feel bad but so long as she isn't dating him...he's up for grabs!
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in my opinion,i would still like the tounge pirced guy!! but anyways...i think u shouldnt go out with him,in the end u might get hurt and your friend wouldnt be there!! Also if you do,and you break up,you & JJ might not be friends anymore!!I WOULD hook JJ and your friend up thogh,but thats just what I would do!!
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