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the only sign is if you feel ready, there really isnt any other sign... if you feel comfortable with that whole situation and you feel that you'll have no regrets then that usually means your ready... hope i helped... *Cortney*

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well me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and well it took 4 months for me to kiss him and well thats all ive ever done with anyone...well now hes kinda wanting more and is testing his limits and well i know its normal for guys to try that but i dont know...im only 14 is it normal for 14 year olds to do stuff like that? see my boyfriend has always gottin some from everyone hes been with accept me, but i kinda know that he cares for me b/c he waited so long and well if i do get up the nerve to do it once, will i have to do it alot? is he going to expect that more? should i do it? any advise?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months now and we just started doing more than making out like a month and a hlf ago maybe 2 months ago.. and im comfortable with that.. well my point is dont do anything you dont want to do because later in life you'll regret it... only do what u want to do, and nothing more.

hope ive helped... *Cortney*

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Thanx cortney...you helped alot...my b/f wasnt using me....n ya ik alll guys arent like that....

-Casidie-

your welcome... u can ask me nething wen ever you want... im glad i helped

-cort-

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I dont know what to do...I love my boyfriend...sort of...but idk what to do...i like other guys....but i dont know...no guys ever seem to like me...they just use me...n id wanna be single...but i hate being used...i think my boyfriend is using mebut guys only like me b/c they wanna use me...other than that they hate me....it always seems like the wanna b my friend more...i hate bein friends with all the guys all they tlk about is sex,cars and girls...but ive learned to deal with it...but idk...plz help me....i just dont know any more

E-mail: BleedingRose@death-star.com
Name: Casidie ( Cassie or Caddie)

thnx a bunch

Casidie,
I think you should confront your boyfriend and ask him if he really likes you or if hes just using you, and tell him to be honest because youd rather know the truth and be hurt then to be lied to and later find out and be even more hurt, as for the other guys just avoid them, if they just want to use u then they arent worth it... also not all guys are like that though... and you shouldnt have to deal with it believe me when i say that.... i hope i helped....

-cortney-

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Why is it that all teenage boys only want sex, sex and sex? Are there any teenage boys, anywhere, that want a serious relationship? It's so hard to even find a half decent guy anymore. Don't guys just ever want to take things slow and want a girl for more than just sex?

basically all guys are just looking for sex, but there are a few guys out there who r willing to wait tho and have a serious relationship with a girl so dont worry Mr. Right is out there somewhere just keep on looking...

-cort-

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my girlfriend and i are sort of drifting apart... so its getting harder to like her when i dont see her too much... but my best friend and i have been hanging out a lot and im starting to like her... but i cant break my girlfriends heart but i dont want to be dishonest with her????

If your starting to not like your girlfriend then tell her, before things go any further... and as for your bestfriend tell her that you like her and see wether she likes you back
-cort-

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